The BuzzFeed Community was prompted to share their stories of severing ties with toxic family members, revealing deeply personal experiences that led to this difficult decision. Contributors recount years of emotional strain, manipulation, and feeling undervalued by their relatives. The narratives highlight the importance of self-care and establishing boundaries, as individuals realize that their mental well-being often comes at the cost of maintaining harmful familial relationships. Notably, several participants express relief and newfound peace after making the choice to cut off these connections, showcasing a journey of liberation and personal growth.
I have toxic family members all around. I've been caring for my mother and father for many years now. Doctor appointments, emergencies, 10 years in my house, moving, medicine 'guru,' etc. All I've heard was complaint after complaint. Unexpectedly, a close friend asked me to go on a weeklong trip with her, and when I came home, my house was turned upside down, and my garage was filled with maggots. Then, I was told it was me. Bye, bye, never turn around. That's my motto, and only ONE story of so many, so many. Such peace now!!!
I was raised by horrible parents and never grew. I only aged, so I put up with WAY more than I should have! But it was when my father said, 'Your friend with benefits will NEVER be welcome in my house,' when I showed him the engagement ring. They hadn't even met or had any sort of conversation! (My man knew I was the one within a short time, and we are still together seven years later!) I had realized my father couldn't stand to see me happy, so that was the last straw.
My mother, who left me in foster care and disappeared when I was a kid, shows up every few years when she gets dumped by a man and has nowhere to go and no one to turn to. This last time was THE LAST TIME. I'm finished being used.
I'm the middle of three sisters. After years of feeling like the odd one out from both my older and younger siblings, I realized I've only ever been there to support them without receiving anything in return. It's time to prioritize myself.
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