Perhaps it is not that she loses the role of being top priority, but more that the demands of your job create limitations on your availability. This doesn't mean you love her less; it means you are busy.
Consider using the BeReal app that prompts you to send each other pictures once a day. This will at least remind her that you are thinking of her.
Being responsible for your own happiness is the name of the game! Often, when people retire or their children leave or other big changes occur in life, they turn to their spouse...
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