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Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says the happiest people aren't the ones who found their passion - they're the ones who stopped treating their life as a problem that needed solving - Silicon Canals

The relentless pursuit of passion may lead to unhappiness, while embracing diverse interests can foster a richer, more fulfilling life.
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago
Psychology

Research suggests that people who pursue happiness directly almost never find it - but people who pursue meaning, connection, and acceptance report a quiet contentment that outlasts every peak experience - Silicon Canals

Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

Is Your Pursuit of Happiness Making You Sad?

Valuing happiness as a goal can lead to emotional bankruptcy and a self-defeating cycle of constant internal surveillance.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says the happiest people aren't the ones who found their passion - they're the ones who stopped treating their life as a problem that needed solving - Silicon Canals

The relentless pursuit of passion may lead to unhappiness, while embracing diverse interests can foster a richer, more fulfilling life.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Research suggests that people who pursue happiness directly almost never find it - but people who pursue meaning, connection, and acceptance report a quiet contentment that outlasts every peak experience - Silicon Canals

Pursuing happiness directly often leads to disappointment and lower satisfaction, as expectations create a gap between reality and feelings.
Arts
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 day ago

Art, sex, nature: why is everything sold to us as a means to an end, rather than an end in itself?

Art should be valued for its own sake, not merely for its utilitarian benefits or health claims.
#success
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago
Careers

I'm 66 and I finally realized that I've spent my entire adult life chasing a version of success that my father defined in 1985 - and the reason I feel so empty now isn't because I failed, it's because I succeeded at building someone else's dream and called it mine - Silicon Canals

Success can be inherited but may not align with personal fulfillment or happiness.
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago
Careers

I'm 66 and I finally realized that I've spent my entire adult life chasing a version of success that my father defined in 1985 - and the reason I feel so empty now isn't because I failed, it's because I succeeded at building someone else's dream and called it mine - Silicon Canals

Books
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

Do You See Yourself in a Story?

Comic books have evolved into a serious medium for exploring trauma and psychological depth, exemplified by works like Maus.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
5 days ago

The Unlived Life: Jung's Most Haunting Concept

Success can lead to an unsettling realization of the unlived life, where unfulfilled aspects of personality and desires remain hidden.
#decision-making
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

Taking the Pressure Off of Decision-Making

Decision-making is often stressful due to unconscious biases and insufficient information, but clarity and self-awareness can ease the process.
Bootstrapping
fromExchangewire
4 days ago

The Importance of Confidence in an Unpredictable World

Agencies can help clients build confidence in decision-making by providing clarity, preparedness, and adaptability in uncertain business environments.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

Taking the Pressure Off of Decision-Making

Decision-making is often stressful due to unconscious biases and insufficient information, but clarity and self-awareness can ease the process.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

I always assumed retirement would bring peace - instead it feels like being handed the life I never had time to live, and the weight of that freedom is scarier than any deadline ever was - Silicon Canals

Retirement can lead to an identity crisis and feelings of purposelessness after decades of structured work life.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 days ago

Are Muslim Arabs Especially Likely to Believe in Fate?

Cultural groups exhibit varying levels of fatalism, influencing their perspectives on control and destiny.
fromPhilosophynow
1 week ago

What do I have to fear, have I ever diminished by dying?

What do I have to fear, have I ever diminished by dying? I died as lifeless matter and became growing vegetation, then I died as a plant and reached animality. I died as an animal and became human.
#identity
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago
Mental health

Psychology says people who feel purposeless after 50 aren't lost - they've simply outgrown a self that was built entirely around what other people needed from them - Silicon Canals

Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

I realized recently that I've spent years becoming whoever the room needed me to be - and now I honestly can't tell the difference between what I actually enjoy and what I've just been pretending to for so long it stuck - Silicon Canals

Constantly adapting to others' expectations can lead to losing touch with one's authentic self and preferences.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
6 days ago

Psychology says people who feel purposeless after 50 aren't lost - they've simply outgrown a self that was built entirely around what other people needed from them - Silicon Canals

Identity can be lost when roles defined by others are removed, leading to a journey of self-discovery.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

I realized recently that I've spent years becoming whoever the room needed me to be - and now I honestly can't tell the difference between what I actually enjoy and what I've just been pretending to for so long it stuck - Silicon Canals

Constantly adapting to others' expectations can lead to losing touch with one's authentic self and preferences.
Philosophy
fromApaonline
1 day ago

Doing Philosophy in a Borrowed Tongue

Experiencing a second language can create a profound sense of self-difference and challenges in communication for international students.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
5 days ago

Are We Programming Our Own Obsolescence?

Cultural narratives shape personal identities and perceptions of progress, influencing desires, fears, and moral values.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

Psychology says people who crave both complete freedom and deep companionship aren't confused - they're experiencing the central tension of the human condition, and the people who resolve it aren't the ones who choose a side but the ones who stop treating it like a choice - Silicon Canals

The autonomy-connection paradox highlights the human need for both independence and intimacy in relationships.
fromThe Philosopher
3 days ago

We do not know what thinking is: Five Heideggerian statements

"We do not know what thinking is. But we do know when we are not thinking."
Philosophy
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Talking About Death: The Depth of the Meaning of Life

Death is a certain aspect of life that is often uncomfortable to discuss, yet it shapes our relationships and understanding of existence.
Writing
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Don't Let AI Write the Story of Your Life

Writing is essential for self-discovery, and AI's influence can strip away personal narratives and authenticity.
OMG science
fromBig Think
3 weeks ago

Ask Ethan: Does nature need to obey laws at all?

The Universe's fundamental laws and constants remain unchanged across space and time, despite the variety of structures formed throughout cosmic evolution.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
6 days ago

Is Anger Always Justifiable?

Emotional reasoning can distort reality, leading perfectionists to justify anger based solely on its existence, potentially harming relationships.
#existential-psychology
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Understanding Existential Psychology in a Global Context

Existential psychology was first labeled in the West but does not belong to the West; cultural humility and global dialogue are essential for advancing existential therapy across diverse contexts.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Understanding Existential Psychology in a Global Context

Existential psychology was first labeled in the West but does not belong to the West; cultural humility and global dialogue are essential for advancing existential therapy across diverse contexts.
Writing
fromPsychology Today
4 weeks ago

Zemblanity: When Bad Luck Is Built In

Luck extends beyond random chance to include serendipity and zemblanity, where human agency shapes whether unexpected events become positive or negative outcomes.
fromPhilosophynow
1 week ago

Life Sacrifice

The widespread practice of showing the Eid Al Adha slaughtering to children can desensitize them to violence, as many families take pride in this tradition.
Philosophy
Medicine
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

The Mind-Body Question

Witnessing the interior of one's body through medical imaging reveals the material nature of consciousness and confronts us with our own mortality and physical vulnerability.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Holding Inspired Authority

Effective authority fosters growth through listening, modeling behaviors, and celebrating achievements, avoiding both abuse and abdication.
fromPhilosophynow
1 week ago

The Mirror & the Flame

Attar's 'Conference of the Birds' follows a flock of souls seeking the Simorgh, symbolizing the Divine, through seven valleys, ultimately revealing the Divine as a reflection of the self in relation with others.
Philosophy
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Beyond Suspicion: Why We Doubt Greatness-and What It Says About Us

Mental mastery and team trust are crucial for success in cycling, transcending past performance and skepticism.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

What Is Existential Psychology?

In particular, I have a fascination with one-hit wonders, songwriters who at some point inexplicably produced a morsel of unequivocal genius, a sonic masterpiece, like a portal into an unknown universe... three to five timeless minutes that hover with esoteric intelligence as if heaven itself reached down and caressed a human voice... a song that brushes close enough to the divine to leave us believing in a force greater than our flesh and bones.
Music production
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Good Deaths of People Who Never Marry

People who had never married 'generally fared as well as, if not better than, married persons.' They also found that people who had no children were no different from parents in the quality of their life in their last month.
Mental health
fromThe Atlantic
2 weeks ago

How to Believe in God

Witnessing the presence of God at a bus stop in 2011, I felt overwhelmed by something indescribably majestic, which bared my soul to a profound realization.
Philosophy
Science
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

What Is Life?

Life's definition remains scientifically elusive, with origin theories suggesting asteroids triggered chemical cascades enabling self-organizing molecules to develop memory, agency, and consciousness from inert matter.
Mindfulness
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Ideas We Aren't Ready to Understand-Yet

Collect ideas you don't understand but sense are important, as they trigger deeper cognitive processing and eventual insight through incubation.
fromTerry Godier
2 months ago

Phantom Obligation

There's a particular kind of guilt that visits me when I open my feed reader after a few days away. It's not the guilt of having done something wrong, exactly. It's more like the feeling of walking into a room where people have been waiting for you, except when you look around, the room is empty. There's no one there. There never was.
UX design
Film
fromVulture
2 months ago

Sometimes, It Helps to Look at Another Human's Face

Sam Green's film interweaves portraits of supercentenarians with his own life—birth, cancer diagnosis—creating an evolving, live documentary about aging, mortality, and records.
fromNature
1 month ago

'What are we doing here?' The polymaths who searched for the meaning of life

A mentor once told me that, when writing a research statement for a professorship, I had to start with the most ambitious pitch I could imagine - and then go ten times bigger. It's tricky enough to do this as a cosmologist, given that the topic of study is the entire Universe. But there is a quest that is more ambitious still: to find out 'what are we doing here?'
Books
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Link Between Thinking and Being

Metaphors are linked to how we experience the world around us, according to seminal work by researchers George Lakoff and Mark Johnson. In English, we "move forward" with our lives and don't "retreat into" the past. We speak about people who are "cold as ice" and "heavy" matters we need to resolve. Some of these metaphorical expressions are more than just, well, expressions-they are actually based on our sensory experiences. This mind-body link is called "embodied cognition."
Science
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Atheist's Guide to Surviving End Times

Non-religious people experience apocalyptic anxiety from modern crises despite disbelieving End Times prophecy, requiring meaning-making through psychological and social resources rather than faith.
Science
fromBig Think
2 months ago

The profound life lesson at the heart of chaos theory

Chaotic systems exhibit sensitivity to initial conditions where tiny input differences produce disproportionately large, unpredictable differences in outcomes.
Philosophy
fromThe Conversation
1 month ago

Making good choices when life gets messy - practical wisdom relies on human judgment, not rules

Practical wisdom involves making sound judgments in complex situations where rules are unclear and competing values conflict.
fromBig Think
1 month ago

Ask Ethan: Will anything persist when the Universe dies?

Star-formation will eventually end, and then the last shining stars will burn out. Galaxies will dissociate due to gravitational interactions, ejecting all masses and leaving only supermassive black holes behind. And then those black holes will decay via Hawking radiation, leaving only cold, stable, isolated bodies, from which no further energy can be extracted, all accelerating away from us within our dark energy-dominated Universe.
Science
fromThe Conversation
1 month ago

Today's obsession with authenticity isn't new - being true to yourself has troubled philosophers for centuries

All of us live in an age where we're bombarded by social media and artificial intelligence - when striving to be your authentic self becomes an increasingly difficult task. Yet, even if it has somehow become a common goal, it is unclear how many of us can truly define the "authenticity" that we say we are pursuing.
Philosophy
fromThe Conversation
1 month ago

What is happiness? A philosopher looks for answers

Happiness today is narrowly defined by some positive psychologists as a joyous state of mind or well-being. The happiness sciences see it as something you can calculate and quantify. They developed a Happiness Index and the World Happiness Report. These basically measure happiness as satisfaction, with criteria like gross domestic product per capita (money) and life expectancy (health) as some of the factors considered.
Philosophy
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

Quote of the day by Carl Jung: "Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate" - Silicon Canals

Unconscious patterns and autopilot behavior drive most decisions, causing repeated life outcomes until they are consciously examined and changed.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Power of Beliefs: How to Stop Surrendering Your Agency

When Serena Williams strode onto the Wimbledon grass, her legendary power was never in question. Her serve was crushing. Her backhand was unstoppable. But she wouldn't go to the net. She'd see a short ball, the kind that screams "approach," and she would hesitate to volley and miss the point. Serena was not playing at her full potential because of a story in her head.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Mind's Search for Meaning

Have you ever experienced an encounter with an image in the sky or thought that the lyrics to your favourite song related to your personal life? These are examples of having moments that are either unsettling, poetic, or just plain strange. Such experiences are known as apophenia, expressions of our innate tendency to find patterns and attribute meaning to things that are random.
Psychology
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

How Did Meaning Emerge in a Meaningless Universe?

Meaning arises when physical correlations acquire evolutionary significance in living systems, grounding aboutness in biological value, neural representations, social symbols, and cultural narratives.
fromApaonline
2 months ago

Philosophy, Technology, and Mortality

This APA Blog series has broadly explored philosophy and technology with a throughline on the influence of technology and AI on well-being. This month's post brings those themes into focus recounting a vital Washington Post Opinion piece by friend of the APA Blog, Samuel Kimbriel. Samuel is the founding director of the Aspen Institute's Philosophy and Society Initiative and Editor at Large for Wisdom of Crowds. We collaborated on a Substack Newsletter about intellectual ambition, building on his essay, Thinking is Risky.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Finessing Fate: Living With Two Forms of Power

An old definition of the word fate is "the will of the gods." We might say that it is a fitting metaphor, as it suggests that fate comes from a source much larger than ourselves. Its immensity will stretch way beyond what is in our control. We can ask: How can we create a life that reflects our dreams and what we hold to be important, when so much lies outside our sphere of influence?
Philosophy
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Move over stoics! Why we should all embrace nihilism and discover what really matters in life | Gemma Parker

I was suspicious, even cynical, about what the world insisted was vital to the life of my unborn child. I was partly sceptical because so much of the advice I was getting was contradictory. But I was also suspicious because I'd spent most of my 20s reading Nietzsche. Nietzsche is not, perhaps, a natural choice for a young mother. But he helps to fuel certain questions about values, and purpose, that are central to questions of care.
Philosophy
#philosophy
fromAeon
2 months ago

The Japanese ethics of 'ningen' dethrones the Western self | Aeon Essays

In Rinrigaku, Watsuji argues that ethics is the study of what it means for us to be human. How we think about the nature of human existence, he says, dictates the ways in which we understand our ethical values. Hence, he criticises Western philosophical conceptions of the modern subject, arguing that the Western rendering of subjectivity is both problematic and foreign
Philosophy
Philosophy
fromThe Conversation
2 months ago

An existentialist philosopher on why we should not let fear dictate love

Love can operate as a comforting illusion promising wholeness, while existentialism locates human incompleteness in thrownness and the responsibility to create meaning.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

What's the Point of Philosophy?

Unlike me, Dan Dennett, or-I suspect-most scientists studying the brain, Richard maintains that science is: i) neutral between the view that consciousness is (to simplify) identical to parts of your brain and what goes on inside of it, and the view that consciousness is a fundamental property of reality, found in all particles of matter (or, for that matter, other theories such as dualism and idealism) and ii) to be sharply distinguished from philosophy.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

A Third Kind of Philosophy

Many philosophers strike me as like Polish apparatchiks in 1983-they turn up to work and do what they did yesterday just because they don't know what else to do, not because they seriously believe in the system they are maintaining. I think it's not been fully appreciated how much of a blow it is to the confidence of the field's youth that scientific ambitions are increasingly abandoned as untenable.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

If Justice Doesn't Exist, Then Numbers Don't Either

A drawn circle is at least something physical. You can see it, touch it, erase it. The skeptic can still say, "Circles are grounded in physical reality. Justice is different; it's just an idea in your head." So let's talk about the number two. Point to it. Not two apples, not two fingers, not a numeral on a page-that's just a symbol.
Philosophy
Philosophy
fromThe Conversation
1 month ago

I'm a philosopher who tries to see the best in others - but I know there are limits

Interpreting others charitably—seeing them as protagonists who do their best—promotes understanding, cooperation, and productive learning across differences.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Myth of Progress

Relentless pursuit of progress can shrink life, prioritizing efficiency and achievements over health, relationships, and meaningful depth—becoming a poisoned gift.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Why You Can't Rely on Your Own Morality Alone

What does it mean to say that you are restrained solely by your own morality, by your own mind? The conscience is often described as an inner voice telling us what to do when others may be opposed. A moral compass is that which distinguishes between right and wrong, good and bad. Our conscience, our moral compass, sets the groundwork for doing the right thing.
Philosophy
#immortality
fromAeon
2 months ago
Philosophy

Would immortality offer a curse of boredom or endless novelty? | Aeon Videos

fromAeon
2 months ago
Philosophy

Would immortality offer a curse of boredom or endless novelty? | Aeon Videos

fromAeon
2 months ago
Philosophy

Would immortality offer a curse of boredom or endless novelty? | Aeon Videos

fromAeon
2 months ago
Philosophy

Would immortality offer a curse of boredom or endless novelty? | Aeon Videos

Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

The Hidden Cost of Being 'Rational' All the Time

Reason should regulate and partner with emotion rather than suppress it; using rationality to avoid emotional responsibility damages judgment and relationships.
Philosophy
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

What We Get Wrong About Human Dignity

Dignity is inherent and unconditional; making dignity conditional, earned, or reduced to niceness or status destroys true human worth and respect.
Philosophy
fromThe Philosopher
1 month ago

A Genealogy for the End of the World

The Anthropocene frames humanity as a collective geological force reshaping Earth’s climate and biosphere, redefining history through shared catastrophe and human-driven planetary change.
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