Many people successfully purchase homes while still carrying student debt. What matters most isn't whether you have debt, it's how well you manage it.
Looking back, it's easy to spot the moments where things could have gone differently. At the time, each financial decision felt justified, and sometimes even smart! Whether it was driven by optimism, pressure, or a belief that I could "figure it out later," I made choices that seemed reasonable in the moment but were costly over time. What surprised me most wasn't just the money lost, but how similar the underlying mistakes were.
My goal was to only pay bills. I didn't want to buy anything extra, but I knew things always come up, like my son needing something for school. I told myself ahead of time that I could "break the freeze" for absolute necessities only. Over the 30 days, copays for doctor's appointments and prescription costs were the only unexpected purchases I made.
Filing a return can be time-consuming and complicated. The possibility of an audit feels intimidating. And the cost can be high. Each year, Americans collectively work nearly four months just to cover their combined federal, state and local taxes. If you earn $100,000 a year, that can add up to more than $1 million over the course of your career - money that could otherwise be invested in your business or your family.
Step away from those individual stocks. Forget I bonds and laddered portfolios of individual Treasury Inflation-Protected Securities. If you're a satisficer, they're not for you. Reduce your number of accounts and the holdings within them.A portfolio with fewer moving parts is easier to oversee and simpler to document in case your loved ones or a financial advisor needs to take the wheel.