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Writing
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 hours ago

Making the scarlet letter into my career': my life as a sex writer

Defending casual sex can provoke strong reactions, especially from family, highlighting generational and cultural tensions around sexuality.
SF LGBT
fromQueerty
1 day ago

"Do you wanna move to the bed?": Breaking the "right guy" myth one bad hookup at a time - Queerty

Pretty explores Black masculinity from a transgender perspective, highlighting beauty, toxicity, and the need for change.
Mission District
fromsfist.com
1 day ago

Oakland to Try Using Street Barriers to Curb Sex Work In 'The Blade'

Oakland is implementing a pilot program with barriers to redirect sex work activity from side streets to International Boulevard.
fromSlate Magazine
9 hours ago

Two Generations Ago, It Wasn't So Weird to Be Naked in Front of Other People. Now Everyone Hates It. I Went to the Only Place to Find Out Why.

Glen Eden's 159 acres of pools, palms, pickleball courts, and RV hookups fall midway between Los Angeles and San Diego, walled in by a ridge of bony hills to the west and a strategically placed berm to the east.
Skiing
fromKqed
1 hour ago

Search of Golden Gate Bridge Protesters' Social Media Was Illegal, Attorneys Argue | KQED

Moeel filed a motion to suppress that evidence in court ahead of trial, where defendants face maximum sentences of 14 or 15 years in prison for charges including felony conspiracy, false imprisonment and trespassing to interfere with a business.
Social justice
NYC LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
1 day ago

Share your pictures of Pride with us & we'll help your colors shine for the world - LGBTQ Nation

Pride in Pictures invites readers to share their personal Pride stories and photos to celebrate the significance of Pride Month.
fromAnOther
2 hours ago

Olivia Laing on the Life and Times of David Wojnarowicz

David Wojnarowicz's art was not merely a career choice; it was a way to survive emotionally, a source of psychic nourishment and a mode of resistance.
Photography
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
4 hours ago

2 Reasons Why Intelligent People Face Higher Loneliness

Higher intelligence may lead to different social needs and experiences, resulting in potential isolation despite cognitive strengths.
Independent films
from48 hills
17 hours ago

Screen Grabs: Everyone is lying to you for money and no one cares about crazy people - 48 hills

Documentary filmmakers are uncovering inconvenient truths amidst political theatrics and media monopolies.
LGBT
fromQueerty
1 day ago

Why is everyone suddenly talking about sex tourism? - Queerty

Brazil is a leading destination for sex tourism, sparking debates about morality and exploitation in the industry.
fromwww.bbc.com
13 hours ago

Video that police denied existed shows woman pinned down

Nadine Buzzard-Quashie was arrested at her home on suspicion of sending malicious communications, where police used excessive force, throwing metal spikes in front of her car and forcing her to the ground.
UK news
#comedy
SF LGBT
fromQueerty
2 days ago

Allison Reese on Kamala Harris, comedy, & creative freedom - Queerty

Allison blends satire and cultural commentary in her comedy, reflecting on her viral success and the balance between humor and responsibility.
fromWIRED
1 day ago

Sniffies' Users Worry About a 'Straightification' of the Gay Hookup App

"I overwhelmingly prefer the experience I get and the community I can access. But I have a bad feeling that could soon change."
NYC startup
fromInside Higher Ed | Higher Education News, Events and Jobs
1 day ago

Report Highlights Men's Precollege Sexual Education

Young men are not receiving the education they need before college. When education is inconsistent, incomplete, or absent, young men show up on campuses with varying levels of knowledge about sex and healthy relationships.
Higher education
Law
fromwww.amny.com
1 day ago

Appeals court rules people can't sue over forced abortion under the Adult Survivors Act | amNewYork

Unauthorized abortions are not considered sexual abuse under New York's law, according to a recent court ruling.
NYC politics
fromAdvocate.com
1 day ago

In NYC's Stonewall district, voters want rent relief over representation debates

Voters prioritize local issues over candidates' identities in a New York City special election.
#gender-affirming-care
Healthcare
fromAdvocate.com
2 days ago

Hospitals dodge questions on restoring trans youth care despite judge ruling they can keep providing it

Many hospitals remain silent on resuming gender-affirming care for minors despite a court ruling against the Trump administration's directive.
Healthcare
fromAdvocate.com
2 days ago

Hospitals dodge questions on restoring trans youth care despite judge ruling they can keep providing it

Many hospitals remain silent on resuming gender-affirming care for minors despite a court ruling against the Trump administration's directive.
fromTime Out New York
1 day ago

Anyone can step on stage in the middle of Times Square, grab a mic and speak freely at this one-day-only public performance

Freedom of expression is taken each time silence feels safer than speech, each time convenience outweighs conviction, each time we mistake the absence of punishment for the presence of freedom.
NYC music
fromThe Nation
2 days ago

These AI-Powered Surveillance Cameras Are Everywhere-and People Have Had Enough

The surveillance infrastructure being built right now is one of the defining stories of the 21st century. Twenty years from now, people will point to this era as one when the relationship between the state and the individual was permanently renegotiated.
Privacy technologies
Public health
fromBuzzFeed
4 days ago

Experts Say This Is The 1 Thing You Should Do ASAP Next Time You Use A Public Restroom

Public restrooms can be germy, but toilet seats are not the main concern; airborne particles pose a greater risk.
#performance-art
Arts
fromBoston.com
3 days ago

Did the MFA's nude performance push boundaries or go too far?

Xandra Ibarra's 'Nude Laughing' performance at the MFA challenges perceptions of the nude in art, provoking strong reactions and discussions about race and gender.
Arts
fromBoston.com
3 days ago

Did the MFA's nude performance push boundaries or go too far?

Xandra Ibarra's 'Nude Laughing' performance at the MFA challenges perceptions of the nude in art, provoking strong reactions and discussions about race and gender.
Women
fromwww.amny.com
2 days ago

We cannot let the status quo continue': Manhattan lawmaker wants New York state to lead on improving menopause care for women | amNewYork

Legislators are urged to pass bills supporting menopausal women, including insurance coverage and workplace protections.
Remote teams
fromNBC New York
3 days ago

Logging on at a cafe? Privacy and security guidelines for remote workers

Remote work offers flexibility but comes with privacy and security risks that require precautions.
Humor
fromQueerty
4 days ago

Zach Noe Towers dishes on Twink Death, Leslie Jordan & what he really thinks about hooking up with fans - Queerty

Zach Noe Towers is a rising star in comedy, known for his unique voice and experiences in the queer community.
fromPadailypost
5 days ago

City wants to hit newspapers with a new fee

The proposal before council would require newspapers to pay an initial $373 fee for each rack. For a newspaper with 25 racks, that would be a $9,325 hit.
NYC parents
#lgbtq
fromQueerty
6 days ago
Film

EXCLUSIVE: This steamy laundromat romance comes with an unexpected twist - Queerty

fromQueerty
4 days ago
Relationships

Have self-compassion, take a warm shower & seek out insightful twinks: Gays share their best pieces of advice - Queerty

fromQueerty
2 days ago
NYC LGBT

Grindr takes D.C.: The gayest party in Tr*mp's Washington was also the strangest - Queerty

fromLGBTQ Nation
3 days ago
LGBT

These 10 banned LGBTQ+ books for teens and young adults teach resilience & authenticity - LGBTQ Nation

Film
fromQueerty
6 days ago

EXCLUSIVE: This steamy laundromat romance comes with an unexpected twist - Queerty

Laundromats serve as unexpected spaces for connection, as seen in the film Molly, which explores intimacy and asexuality in queer relationships.
Parenting
fromLGBTQ Nation
6 days ago

Comedian shares hilarous take on growing up with lesbian moms - LGBTQ Nation

Jaclyn Lore-Edwards shares humorous insights about growing up with two moms, highlighting love, freedom of expression, and unique childhood experiences.
Relationships
fromQueerty
4 days ago

Have self-compassion, take a warm shower & seek out insightful twinks: Gays share their best pieces of advice - Queerty

Seeking advice from others can provide valuable insights and support, especially for LGBTQ+ individuals from their queer elders.
NYC LGBT
fromQueerty
2 days ago

Grindr takes D.C.: The gayest party in Tr*mp's Washington was also the strangest - Queerty

Grindr's event during the White House Correspondents' Dinner highlighted the complex intersection of LGBTQ+ culture and conservative politics.
LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
3 days ago

These 10 banned LGBTQ+ books for teens and young adults teach resilience & authenticity - LGBTQ Nation

Censorship of LGBTQ+ books in libraries reached an all-time high, with significant challenges against titles that address complex social and emotional issues.
London politics
fromwww.theguardian.com
6 days ago

The Guardian view on toilets: public spaces need public conveniences | Editorial

Public toilet availability in England has decreased by 14% over the last decade, impacting social equality and hygiene.
SF LGBT
fromwww.theguardian.com
12 hours ago

Infinite pleasure': the strip club drama that leaves you horny, vulnerable and dialling your parents

Tender explores masculinity, sexuality, and the challenges men face in discussing pleasure and vulnerability.
fromLGBTQ Nation
1 day ago

The movement to ban LGBTQ+ books is not slowing down. Here's what we can do about it. - LGBTQ Nation

"Never before in the life of any living American have so many books been systematically removed from school libraries across the country. Never before have so many states passed laws or regulations to facilitate the banning of books, including bans on specific titles statewide."
LGBT
NYC LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
1 day ago

"Who do I gotta b**w to get a Martini?": Grindr's weekend party in D.C. was not so very gay - LGBTQ Nation

Grindr's first WHCD weekend party garnered attention amidst controversy, featuring notable attendees and discussions on social media regulations.
Mission District
from48 hills
3 days ago

Pushing back against a radical move to change SF's housing and drug policy - 48 hills

San Francisco is reconsidering established housing and substance use policies, particularly the Housing First approach, amidst limited media coverage.
Law
fromSan Francisco Bay Times
5 days ago

Ann Rostow: What Dreams May Come? - San Francisco Bay Times

Belarus has enacted a law prohibiting the promotion of homosexuality and related topics, reflecting ongoing discrimination against LGBTQ+ individuals.
#transgender-rights
fromLGBTQ Nation
3 weeks ago
SF LGBT

Trans good Samaritan tried to help a drunk guy at a bar. Then his friend violently attacked her. - LGBTQ Nation

SF LGBT
fromAdvocate.com
22 hours ago

Trump targets where transgender people can be housed in an emergency

The administration proposes a rule allowing shelters to determine placement based on sex assigned at birth, impacting transgender individuals' access to housing.
SF LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
3 weeks ago

Trans good Samaritan tried to help a drunk guy at a bar. Then his friend violently attacked her. - LGBTQ Nation

A transgender woman was assaulted outside an LGBTQ+ bar in Bellingham, Washington, after trying to help an intoxicated man.
SF LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
11 months ago

Trans man uses women's restroom to follow the law. Police detained him for it anyway. - LGBTQ Nation

A transgender man was assaulted and charged for using a women's restroom despite having an 'F' gender marker on his ID.
Social justice
fromwww.theguardian.com
6 days ago

We aren't scared any more': #MeToo's lessons give Epstein survivors strength to speak out

Survivors of Jeffrey Epstein and Ghislaine Maxwell demand transparency and accountability, marking a significant moment for the #MeToo movement.
NYC parents
fromWIRED
6 days ago

The Federal Agency Coming for Gender-Affirming Care

The FTC is targeting transgender rights by framing gender-affirming care for minors as a consumer-protection issue.
Public health
fromQueerty
1 week ago

There's a new sex party crasher in town... & he's drug-resistant and lives in your gut - Queerty

Drug-resistant Shigella cases in the US rose from 0% in 2011 to 8.5% in 2023, with no FDA-approved treatments available.
NYC LGBT
fromwww.bxtimes.com
2 days ago

Mamdani administration's campaign to end street harassment reaches the Bronx Bronx Times

The Mayor's Office launched a $250,000 campaign to combat street harassment in New York City, highlighting its prevalence and impact on residents.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
4 days ago

I'm Nearly Divorced and Ready to Date Again. Women Are Going to Run for the Hills When They Hear the Catch.

Severe premature ejaculation complicates dating after a long marriage with diminished sexual intimacy.
#queer-news
fromQueerty
2 weeks ago
Television

Sex, steam & Madonna: Bathhouses are back & so is the queen of reinvention - Queerty

NYC LGBT
fromQueerty
5 days ago

AI himbos, political shade & Madonna on Grindr: This week's messiest gay moments recapped - Queerty

Queerty recaps major queer news stories, including a canceled gay AI influencer and backlash over a mayor's endorsement of a straight candidate.
fromQueerty
2 weeks ago
Television

Sex, steam & Madonna: Bathhouses are back & so is the queen of reinvention - Queerty

NYC LGBT
fromQueerty
5 days ago

AI himbos, political shade & Madonna on Grindr: This week's messiest gay moments recapped - Queerty

Queerty recaps major queer news stories, including a canceled gay AI influencer and backlash over a mayor's endorsement of a straight candidate.
Arts
fromTime Out New York
6 days ago

A new sensual exhibit from Mexico City is now on display at the Museum of Sex

The Museum of Sex presents 'The Life Force,' exploring the tension between life and death through art.
SF LGBT
fromFast Company
2 days ago

Is Tinder's owner buying Sniffies? What Match Group's investment means for the gay cruising platform

Match Group invests $100 million in Sniffies, a map-based cruising platform for queer men, with potential for future acquisition.
Law
fromLos Angeles Times
6 days ago

Effort to hold Uber legally responsible for sexual assaults by drivers heads to ballot

Voters will decide if rideshare companies should be liable for sexual assaults during trips in November.
Berlin
fromwww.dw.com
2 weeks ago

What we call sex work and what it says about society

Sex work has been represented and regulated throughout history, reflecting societal attitudes and moral discourses.
Social justice
fromQueerty
1 week ago

So many funerals, so little help: How our community faced AIDS & refused to disappear - Queerty

The AIDS crisis in America illustrates the impact of youth activism, community, and the ongoing fight for equality and access to care.
Relationships
fromQueerty
6 days ago

This 1930s gay throuple proves messy situationships are eternal - Queerty

A familiar queer dynamic involves friendship, obsession, and messy love triangles, exemplified by historical figures like Cecil Beaton and Peter Watson.
NYC LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
4 days ago

Drag queens mock MAGA figures in jaw-dropping event while raising over $25K for ACLU - LGBTQ Nation

A drag show in Brooklyn raised over $25,000 for the ACLU while satirizing MAGA figures and highlighting the political stakes for the LGBTQ+ community.
Film
fromQueerty
3 weeks ago

The wild world of virtual sex work: 6 essential queer cam stories - Queerty

Camming has become a significant form of sex work, especially among queer individuals seeking creative freedom or economic necessity.
LGBT
fromQueerty
6 days ago

Looksmaxxer says being called "gay" is a compliment because gay dating market's "a lot more competitive" - Queerty

Looksmaxxing reflects modern masculinity and a response to changing cultural dynamics regarding attractiveness and sexuality.
Social justice
fromLGBTQ Nation
1 week ago

A gay bar kicked out a wheelchair user as a "fire risk." Her response forced the bar to make amends. - LGBTQ Nation

Club Tropicana in Manchester apologized to Maddie Haining after discriminating against her as a wheelchair user, violating U.K. disability access laws.
SF LGBT
fromQueerty
5 days ago

Men's lingerie is having a moment & these guys are feeling themselves in sultry undergarments - Queerty

Interest in men's lingerie is growing, with brands seeing increased demand and new collections being launched.
LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
6 days ago

He raped young men & infected them with HIV. Now he's going away for a long time. - LGBTQ Nation

Adam Hall was convicted of transmitting HIV and raping multiple young men, receiving a minimum 23-year life sentence.
Medicine
fromQueerty
1 month ago

How did bottoms prep back in the day? A brief history of douching - Queerty

A new douching alternative, the A-Ball, raised over $100,000 on Kickstarter, indicating significant interest in modern hygiene methods for sexual readiness.
SF LGBT
fromSan Francisco Bay Times
5 days ago

Spring Rides and a 50th Anniversary Party Ahead - San Francisco Bay Times

San Francisco Dykes on Bikes celebrates spring with rides, community events, and prepares for a significant anniversary and International Female Rider Day.
LGBT
fromQueerty
1 week ago

Straight women are discovering age-gap relationships, but there's a gay twist - Queerty

Age gap relationships, particularly between older women and younger men, are gaining attention, influenced by cultural trends and economic factors.
NYC LGBT
fromQueerty
6 days ago

This Drag Race alum is nearly unrecognizable in buff gym pics-but the glow-up doesn't stop there! - Queerty

Dusty Ray Bottoms has transformed her life post-Drag Race, focusing on fitness and performing in local theater after her initial season elimination.
Relationships
fromQueerty
2 weeks ago

He told me he was in an open relationship...after we hooked up. Am I wrong to be annoyed? - Queerty

Open relationships can create misunderstandings if all parties are not upfront about their status before engaging.
SF LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
6 days ago

Black trans woman says gay bar tried kicking her out in act of discrimination: "Literally shaking" - LGBTQ Nation

A Black transgender woman experienced discrimination at a Detroit gay bar, claiming hostility from staff and a lack of support from management.
SF LGBT
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Let's talk about sex in a world of porn | Letter

Straight male authors should embrace writing about sex, but the urgent conversation on sexual knowledge and pleasure is happening outside of literature.
NYC LGBT
fromQueerty
3 weeks ago

As hookup apps lose their grip, gay bathhouses may soon offer an IRL cure for horniness in this U.S. city - Queerty

Minneapolis is considering re-opening bathhouses and gay sex clubs for the first time in nearly 40 years, reflecting changing societal attitudes.
LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
2 weeks ago

You can't talk the gay away - LGBTQ Nation

The U.S. Supreme Court ruled that therapists' speech is protected under the First Amendment, impacting conversion therapy practices.
LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
2 weeks ago

They posted images of same-sex couples kissing. Now they face prison time. - LGBTQ Nation

Eleven members of Young LGBTI+ face trial in Turkey for obscenity and violating family protection laws over social media posts of same-sex couples.
Relationships
fromQueerty
1 month ago

He dropped his pants & I saw something I wasn't prepared for. Now I'm questioning everything. - Queerty

Discovering a partner's Prince Albert piercing can challenge personal comfort levels and affect intimacy.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

I'm Ready for My Big Sexual Awakening. But I'm Searching for a Specific Kind of Guy.

Virginity is not a precious commodity to preserve for one person; instead, prioritize gaining sexual experience, confidence, and skills with partners who respect your pleasure.
Relationships
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago

"My Parents Cared More About Them Than Me": People With Poly Parents Share What It Was Like

Children raised in polyamorous families develop diverse perspectives on relationships, learning that love and support can come from multiple people when communication and consent are present.
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago

I Want To Try Swinging. How Do I Tell My Spouse?

First of all, let me put your mind at ease. Having this thought does not make you a villain. It makes you a long-term partnered adult with a pulse. Most people don't wake up one morning and think, "Ah yes, swinging - this will clearly solve everything." Curiosity like this usually shows up more quietly. It's often less about wanting other people and more about wanting something back: playfulness, aliveness, the feeling that sex is still a place of discovery.
Relationships
fromQueerty
2 months ago

I reported my hookup for disclosing his HIV status after sex. Was I wrong? - Queerty

I finally spent the night at his place, and we hooked up that night and again the next morning. I stayed most of the day and was getting ready to leave when he told me he's HIV-positive. I gave him a kiss and said I understood and that this changed nothing between us, but honestly, I was disappointed he was only telling me now.
NYC LGBT
fromEsquire
2 months ago

I Started a Sex Club to Help People Express Their Deepest Desires

In New York, sex-positive communities have evolved into something more organized than outsiders tend to imagine. Not just parties, but curated ecosystems built on vetting, trust, and a shared commitment to consent. Alain Rostain, a Yale-trained computer scientist and longtime consultant, spent much of his life drawn to power, structure, and desire. Eventually, he applied the same thinking he used in professional settings to the messiest arena of all: intimacy.
Relationships
LGBT
fromQueerty
2 months ago

Older gays debate the appropriate age to stop taking off your shirt in public - Queerty

A 38-year-old gay man feels self-conscious about being shirtless in public and wonders if aging makes it inappropriate; many respondents say never too old.
LGBT
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

In Defense of Effeminate Gay Boys

Gender nonconformity in boys is a natural male variation, not an indicator of being female, and conflating the two undermines acceptance of diverse expressions of masculinity.
LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
11 months ago

A hotel kicked a lesbian out of a women's restroom for being "a man." Now it's changing its story. - LGBTQ Nation

A hotel suspended a guard who wrongly removed a lesbian couple from a women's restroom, retrained staff on inclusion, and donated to an LGBTQ+ organization.
fromQueerty
2 months ago

Boyfriends in church, '80s hunks & hot times in the bathtub: Gays reveal when they definitely knew they liked guys! - Queerty

It can be tough being gay in a straight man's world. When it comes to figuring out our identities, we often have to negotiate our desires with the preconceived expectations around us. This was especially the case for folks who grew up when there was scant representation. Certain attractions may have bubbled, but they remained nameless. Still, that doesn't mean they went unheeded. Gay people have found themselves for centuries.
LGBT
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