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fromwww.theguardian.com
3 days agoMy dad has given my brother 80% of his business and I feel horribly dismissed
I am struggling with the different way my parents have treated me and my brother. My dad started a business when I was five. Now it's worth several million. My brother was invited by my dad to go into the business when he left university. I was not. By then, the business was well established and my dad stayed on as CEO. My dad gave my brother 80% of it. He will now sell the business and realise millions, meaning he can retire early.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
1 month agoMy Best Friend's Husband Is Such A Loser
I'm not just saying that he's lazy, unmotivated, and never takes her out or wants to travel with her, but yes to all of that. I hate how he makes her feel like she's asking for too much out of a partner. I hate how he tells her that he'll do something with her or for her then he doesn't.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
3 months agoA Dad Complained That His Wife's Life Is "Cooler" Than His & People Had Thoughts
My wife works two days a week, one weekend day and one weekday, while I work full time making the large majority of our income. Her job is very important (medical field), and she is a great mom, does a ton of housework, and is all around a wonderful person. I'm fully taking all of that into account when I vent here,
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
3 months agoThe Cost of Nodding "You're Right" When You Don't Mean It
When you bite your tongue repeatedly, underneath it may feel like you are avoiding conflict, but often you're actually building up resentment. We all know that the 'bottle it up and implode or explode later' plan does not work well for any of us. Every unspoken thought becomes a brick in the wall that grows between you and the other person.
Relationships
Right-wing politics
fromPsychology Today
6 months agoHave We Become a Nation of "Winners" and "Losers"?
In-group/out-group bias fuels division and prejudice in American politics.
Growing income inequality intensifies feelings of resentment toward perceived economic 'winners.'
Distrust of different individuals is being fueled by extreme views on social media.
Social justice
fromPsychology Today
8 months agoA New Approach to DEI and Special Ed
DEI's noble goals can unintentionally create resentment, necessitating a change in approach.
Restrictions in special education are perceived as unfair, prompting calls for re-evaluation.
Stigmas surrounding DEI and special ed may have deterred potential beneficiaries.
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