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Berlin
fromwww.dw.com
1 hour ago

What we call sex work and what it says about society

Sex work has been represented and regulated throughout history, reflecting societal attitudes and moral discourses.
Bicycling
fromThe Verge
1 day ago

A sleek, wearable airbag for cyclists is nearly here

A new airbag system integrated into a skinsuit for cyclists aims to enhance rider safety during high-speed races.
E-Commerce
fromEntrepreneur
1 day ago

Why Price Isn't the Real Reason People Buy Anymore

People prioritize ease, safety, and familiarity over price, with trust and habit influencing buying decisions more than discounts.
Arts
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 day ago

Art, sex, nature: why is everything sold to us as a means to an end, rather than an end in itself?

Art should be valued for its own sake, not merely for its utilitarian benefits or health claims.
Health
fromwww.bbc.com
2 days ago

I've been a sex educator for six years. Why did I start doubting my contraception choices?

Milly Evans and Lauren share experiences of misinformation about hormonal contraception affecting their decisions and perceptions.
Exercise
fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

5 Benefits of Using Kegel Balls Regularly

Kegel balls enhance sexual pleasure, improve pelvic muscle control, and boost overall physical and emotional health.
Fashion & style
fromwww.businessinsider.com
1 day ago

A stylist shares 5 pieces you should invest in and 4 you're probably better off buying for cheap

Invest in quality items like shoes, cashmere sweaters, and handbags while saving on trendy pieces and basics.
UX design
fromMedium
2 days ago

Most products don't need tone of voice - they need a point

Focus on practical content that aids user tasks rather than on tone or personality.
Film
fromQueerty
5 days ago

The wild world of virtual sex work: 6 essential queer cam stories - Queerty

Camming has become a significant form of sex work, especially among queer individuals seeking creative freedom or economic necessity.
Cars
frominsideevs.com
5 days ago

Car Buyers Don't Like Subscriptions. Car Companies Are Pushing Them For Driver-Assistance Tech Anyway.

Automakers are increasingly offering partial automation features through subscription models, despite consumer fatigue with ongoing payments.
Medicine
fromwww.theguardian.com
6 days ago

From fat transplants to LED mittens: how the fear of old lady hands' mobilised the beauty industry

Hands reveal age and condition, often contrasting with facial appearance, leading to increased focus on hand care.
#parenting
Parenting
fromDaily Mom magazine
2 weeks ago

How To Research Baby Products Without Losing Your Mind: Smart Strategies & Must-Have Product Recommendations " Read Now!

Researching baby products is essential for making informed choices focused on safety and practicality.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 weeks ago

Years Ago, My Husband Was in an "Adult Film." It's Only a Matter of Time Before Our Kids Find Out.

Discussing a parent's past in adult films with children requires careful consideration of timing and the family's values on sexuality.
Parenting
fromDaily Mom magazine
2 weeks ago

How To Research Baby Products Without Losing Your Mind: Smart Strategies & Must-Have Product Recommendations " Read Now!

Researching baby products is essential for making informed choices focused on safety and practicality.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 weeks ago

Years Ago, My Husband Was in an "Adult Film." It's Only a Matter of Time Before Our Kids Find Out.

Discussing a parent's past in adult films with children requires careful consideration of timing and the family's values on sexuality.
Mindfulness
fromBig Think
6 days ago

The "rawdogging" trend: A new term for an ancient practice

Rawdogging refers to engaging in introspection without distractions, particularly during flights, highlighting our struggle with downtime.
fromFast Company
6 days ago

American Girl is bringing back its original dolls. Moms might be excited but will your seven-year-old care?

American Girl was acquired by Mattel for $700 million and drifted steadily away from what made it special. The historical characters were retired, replaced by contemporary dolls reflecting girls' lives today.
Women in technology
#sexual-communication
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 days ago

My Girlfriend's Sexual Behavior Would Really Turn Most Men On. But It's Killing Me With Embarrassment.

Personal preferences in sexual communication vary; not everyone enjoys or feels comfortable with dirty talk.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

There's One Way I Can Achieve Orgasm. The Trouble Is That I Need My Boyfriend to Leave the Room to Do It.

A woman comfortable with not orgasming during partnered sex should not feel pressured to change this when her partner repeatedly raises the topic despite her clear boundaries.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

There's a Trend That Apparently Drives Women Wild in Bed. It's a Mystery to Me.

Verbal communication during sex, including "talking through it," encompasses feedback, encouragement, and shared fantasy building rather than requiring explicit instruction or performance.
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago
Relationships

"I Learned How To Orgasm From Sitting On My Husband's Face"

A woman stops faking orgasms, trusts a patient partner with her sexual inexperience, and navigates a persistent mental block while valuing intimacy.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago
Relationships

The Secret to Better Sex Isn't Better Sex

Open, emotionally safe, positive sexual communication predicts sexual and relationship satisfaction more than frequency, novelty, or technique.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 days ago

My Girlfriend's Sexual Behavior Would Really Turn Most Men On. But It's Killing Me With Embarrassment.

Personal preferences in sexual communication vary; not everyone enjoys or feels comfortable with dirty talk.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

There's One Way I Can Achieve Orgasm. The Trouble Is That I Need My Boyfriend to Leave the Room to Do It.

A woman comfortable with not orgasming during partnered sex should not feel pressured to change this when her partner repeatedly raises the topic despite her clear boundaries.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

There's a Trend That Apparently Drives Women Wild in Bed. It's a Mystery to Me.

Verbal communication during sex, including "talking through it," encompasses feedback, encouragement, and shared fantasy building rather than requiring explicit instruction or performance.
Arts
fromwww.npr.org
2 days ago

The Analog Bag: Gen Z's solution to doomscrolling

An analog bag filled with screen-free activities helps individuals reduce phone usage and embrace more engaging, hands-on experiences.
Graphic design
fromwww.businessinsider.com
4 days ago

I'm a 62-year-old paralegal who turned my needlepoint hobby into a side hustle. Gen Z are some of my best customers.

Kevin Lustik monetizes his needlepoint hobby, selling art influenced by climate issues, with growing interest from younger generations despite challenges in the fiber art market.
#open-relationships
fromQueerty
4 days ago
Relationships

He told me he was in an open relationship...after we hooked up. Am I wrong to be annoyed? - Queerty

fromHuffPost
4 days ago
Relationships

People Who Convinced Their Partners To Open Their Relationships Share How It REALLY Went For Them

Relationships
fromQueerty
4 days ago

He told me he was in an open relationship...after we hooked up. Am I wrong to be annoyed? - Queerty

Open relationships can create misunderstandings if all parties are not upfront about their status before engaging.
Relationships
fromHuffPost
4 days ago

People Who Convinced Their Partners To Open Their Relationships Share How It REALLY Went For Them

Open relationships can be a solution for couples facing emotional challenges, allowing sexual freedom while maintaining a primary partnership.
fromMail Online
1 week ago

Scientists discover the male G-spot is not where anyone thought

The frenular delta, described as a V-shaped or Y-shaped area on the underside of the penis, is packed with specialized nerve endings that create intense pleasure.
Medicine
Wellness
fromInsideHook
3 weeks ago

This '60s-Era Sex Toy Is the Only One You Need

Wand vibrators remain the most effective and versatile sexual wellness product, outselling technologically advanced alternatives despite nearly 60 years of market competition.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
5 days ago

There's an Unfortunate Pattern to the Women I Sleep With. I'm Becoming "That Guy."

Insecurity about dating younger women can stem from societal judgment and personal feelings of inadequacy.
#orgasm-gap
Women in technology
fromHuffPost
3 weeks ago

This Sex Position Reliably Gets Women Off, And You May Not Have Heard Of It

Women in heterosexual relationships often experience fewer orgasms than men, but techniques like the coital alignment technique can enhance sexual satisfaction.
Women in technology
fromHuffPost
3 weeks ago

This Sex Position Reliably Gets Women Off, And You May Not Have Heard Of It

Women in heterosexual relationships often experience fewer orgasms than men, but techniques like the coital alignment technique can enhance sexual satisfaction.
Relationships
fromEsquire
6 days ago

After My Divorce, I Discovered Rope Play. It Changed My Sex Life.

Gianluca's late-in-life divorce led him to explore dating apps and unexpected experiences in intimacy and self-discovery.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
6 days ago

My Boyfriend Wants Me to Play a New Risque Role in Bed. But My History Will Make It Impossible.

Communicate boundaries clearly and compassionately regarding BDSM interests due to past trauma.
fromFast Company
1 month ago

Sex kink is way more common than you think. This dating app's free tool lets anybody explore those taboos

Nearly half of non-Feeld users (42%) said they practice kink, compared to 68% of the app's user base. In some areas, everyday folks were even kinkier than Feeld members: Among those who practice kink, 44% of external respondents said they engage in role play, just above the 41% of Feeld users that said the same.
LGBT
Fashion & style
fromEntrepreneur
4 weeks ago

Young Entrepreneurs Are Building Businesses Around 'Grandma Hobbies' and Demand Is Surging

Millennials and Gen Z entrepreneurs are building thriving businesses around analog hobbies like needlepoint, mahjong, and blacksmithing as an antidote to screen fatigue and digital burnout.
Relationships
fromHuffPost
1 week ago

Embracing 'Outercourse' Might Totally Transform Your Sex Life

Outercourse encompasses various sexual activities beyond penetration, enhancing sexual pleasure and intimacy.
fromEsquire
3 weeks ago

I Was a Porn Star for Decades. Now, as "the Vagician," I Teach Men How to Have Sex.

When I went into a scene, I fell in love with that girl for the next 50 minutes. I wanted my scenes to not just appear real but to be real to me, because it made my job easier. There were very few girls who didn't orgasm in my scenes. My goal was to get the girl off, because that gave me pleasure.
Women in technology
Relationships
fromHuffPost
1 week ago

The Best Sex Positions For People Over 60, According To Sex Experts

Aging can change sexuality, but satisfying sex is possible with adjustments and a focus on comfort.
LGBT
fromQueerty
1 month ago

Is your next hookup human? Inside the gay sex bot boom - Queerty

Queer people are adopting erotic chatbots for sexual engagement, continuing their historical role as early adopters of sex technology, raising questions about social and relational impacts.
Health
fromHuffPost
1 month ago

This Simple Oral Sex Hack Is Going Viral

Acupressure at specific points, particularly Large Intestine 4 between the thumb and index finger, can help suppress the gag reflex during oral sex by calming stomach and related meridians.
Relationships
fromQueerty
2 weeks ago

Sexpert explains the science behind "just okay" oral & why BJs don't always end in climax - Queerty

Oral sex often doesn't lead to climax for men due to different sensations compared to penetration.
#sexual-desire
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago
Psychology

How to Have More Sex in 2026

Chronic stress and pressure suppress sexual desire; reducing obligation and prioritizing pleasure, play, and imagination creates conditions that allow desire to emerge.
Gadgets
fromWIRED
2 months ago

I'm Physically Disabled, and I Have a Vibrant Sex Life. These Accessible Sex Toys Help

Accessible, adaptive sex toys and sex tech enable pleasurable sexual experiences for disabled bodies across varied abilities and partnered scenarios.
fromWIRED
2 months ago

I've Been Reviewing Sex Toys for Nearly 2 Decades. These Are What I Recommend

Sex toys were pretty basic back then. Most were phallic in shape-even if they weren't necessarily meant to be used internally-made of mystery materials, and required actual batteries. The first sex toy I reviewed was a bullet vibrator that not only needed batteries, but its remote control was connected to the toy by a cord that was probably no more than 10 inches in length. Stockpiling AA and AAA batteries to keep my vibrators working was just as annoying as it sounds.
Wellness
#sexuality
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 weeks ago

I Love Sex With Other Women. I Can't Explain My Most Persistent Fantasy.

Changing unwanted sexual fantasies is difficult, especially when they are tied to negative past experiences.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 weeks ago

When My Girlfriend Went Down on Me, I Instantly Knew Something Was Very Wrong. Then I Realized What She'd Done.

Spicy food can cause discomfort during oral sex, leading to communication issues between partners.
fromScary Mommy
2 weeks ago

Soft Swapping Explained By Experts, Including How To Pitch It To Your Partner

Soft swapping sits in the gray area between monogamy and full partner exchange. Unlike traditional swinging, soft swappers set rules around what acts they can engage in with others.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Don't Manifest More Pleasure. Do This Instead

Visualising "your best life" can boost mood and create a sense of hopefulness. That good feeling you get, and the boost in your mood, are nothing to sneeze at, but-and there is a but-feeling good is not the same as creating change. And this is where it can get tricky when you are applying it to a sex life that you actively want to change.
Miscellaneous
#lelo
fromBustle
2 months ago
Gadgets

These High-End Sex Toys Are Discounted Up To 50% Off Just In Time For Valentine's Day

fromBustle
2 months ago
Gadgets

These High-End Sex Toys Are Discounted Up To 50% Off Just In Time For Valentine's Day

Cocktails
fromSan Francisco Bay Times
1 month ago

Provenance and Pleasure: Engineering Intimacy - San Francisco Bay Times

Nora creates transformative bar experiences through beverage consulting that prioritize provenance, terroir, and process, turning transactional venues into culturally connected destinations where guests develop lasting loyalty.
#sex-toys
fromBuzzFeed
2 months ago

Just 40 Toys That'll Have Your Kids Completely Entranced (And, Hopefully, Out Of Your Hair)

As a parent myself, I know what I'm mostly looking for when buying another toy is that it'll ACTUALLY keep my kids engaged long enough to bring a sliver of peace to my home (a tough task, to say the least!). From Magna-Tiles and the new Toniebox 2 to colorful sensory tubes and a LeapFrog Touch and Learn eReader, my kids have tried out enough of these items to lead you in the right shopping direction!
Parenting
Marketing
fromThe Drum
2 months ago

Durex to unveil social media led TV campaign with Euro RSCG London

Durex launches an integrated TV and digital campaign, including a YouTube advert and Facebook game, to promote Performax Intense and encourage couples to be in-sync.
#praise-kink
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
3 weeks ago

Why "Praise Kink" Might Be The Perfect Dirty Talk For You & Your Partner

Praise kink is a sexual desire for affirmation and positive feedback that activates the brain's reward center, making it an accessible entry point into kink exploration for partners seeking deeper connection.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
1 month ago

Why Do Women Like To Be Called 'Good Girl' In Bed? Sexperts Explain

Women may enjoy being called 'good girl' during sex because it combines mild submission with praise, often indicating a praise kink or power dynamic preference without requiring full BDSM engagement.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
3 weeks ago

Why "Praise Kink" Might Be The Perfect Dirty Talk For You & Your Partner

Praise kink is a sexual desire for affirmation and positive feedback that activates the brain's reward center, making it an accessible entry point into kink exploration for partners seeking deeper connection.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
1 month ago

Why Do Women Like To Be Called 'Good Girl' In Bed? Sexperts Explain

Women may enjoy being called 'good girl' during sex because it combines mild submission with praise, often indicating a praise kink or power dynamic preference without requiring full BDSM engagement.
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

I Can Reliably Orgasm When I Have Sex. But It's Actually a Curse!

It's absolutely possible to be experiencing pelvic pain due to orgasm. Firstly, you live in your body full time, and you're present for every orgasm you have, so I'm inclined to trust the pattern you're seeing. Secondly, I've known more than one person who enjoys sex but actively avoids orgasms for the exact same reason as you.
Health
LGBT
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

I'm Having Great Sex With a Beautiful Woman. If Only She Knew What I Was Thinking About During It.

A person in a new stable relationship experiences intrusive sexual memories of a previous male partner, causing uncertainty about sexual orientation and presence during sex.
fromBustle
2 months ago

55 Bougie Things That Are Actually So Useful & Genius

When it comes to your wardrobe, it can be easy to define "bougie" as a piece of clothing that looks or feels expensive - and while the items on this list check those boxes, they're also so clever, you'll wonder how you ever did without them. Scroll on to shop for chic loungewear with extra functional features; trendy and practical fits for both day and night; and accessories that solve all sorts of fashion-related dilemmas.
Fashion & style
Parenting
fromBuzzFeed
2 months ago

Buying Gifts For Kids Can Be Hard, So Here Are 56 Parent-Approved Options To Help

Choose parent-approved, long-lasting gifts that match children's interests; options include book subscription boxes, laser tag sets, marble runs, and other versatile toys.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
4 weeks ago

I Want to Teach My Girlfriend a New Trick in Bed. The Problem Is Where I Learned It From.

A man seeks advice on whether to teach his girlfriend a specific oral technique he learned from another woman during their breakup, fearing jealousy despite her stated desire to make him orgasm.
fromConde Nast Traveler
4 years ago

Sex Toys So Discreet You Can Take Them (Almost) Anywhere

If you've ever traveled with a sex toy, you may have endured the slightly awkward experience of TSA rifling through your bags-made worse if your toy starts vibrating mid-search. But it's more common than you might think; after all, 80% of adult American women and 45% of adult men now own at least one sex toy. Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven, the largest BIPOC-owned online intimacy shop, recommends removing batteries or running down rechargeable ones before travel.
Gadgets
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago

The 65 Weirdest, Most Useful Things You Never Knew Existed

Small, unconventional products can solve narrow everyday problems, reduce clutter, and improve convenience with simple, discreet designs.
Gadgets
fromBuzzFeed
2 months ago

28 Budget-Friendly Toys That, According To Reviewers, Kids Are "Obsessed" With

A rainbow-colored, clue-shouting hide-and-seek gadget that encourages turn-taking and repeated play by offering hints and a celebration song when found.
fromScary Mommy
1 month ago

What Is "Sex Debt" & Is It Killing The Mood In Your Marriage?

The moment sex becomes something you owe rather than something you want, the dynamic shifts entirely. It reframes intimacy as a transaction, and that's where things start to go wrong. Sex debt thinking often comes from a place of insecurity or poor communication. Usually, couples have never discussed what sex actually means to them in the context of their relationship.
Relationships
Gadgets
fromBustle
2 months ago

60 Weird But Brilliant Things That Genuinely Made My Life Way Easier

Unconventional, odd-looking products can be genuinely useful and simplify everyday life by solving problems in surprising, practical ways.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

I Really Need My Boyfriend to Go Down on Me. What He Does Instead Is Maddening.

Sexual incompatibility rooted in unresolved fear or insecurity requires honest communication and exploration of alternative ways to express intimacy and devotion beyond specific acts.
fromHuffPost
1 month ago

Sex Therapists Say They Would NEVER Do These Things In the Bedroom

The realm of intimate relationships is wide and diverse, providing endless opportunities to discover joy, pleasure and connection. But exploring new ground without consent from both parties may cause unease, betrayals of confidence and even injury. A good sexual relationship depends on this kind of conversation because it ensures that any exploration is grounded in permission and mutual curiosity, strengthening the connection and enhancing the experience for both parties.
Relationships
fromInsideHook
1 month ago

Is This the Year You Get Back to the Basics of Sex?

In the past, when we've done these analyses, we've seen couples express an interest in bondage play or sensory play. But this year, we're almost seeing a shift towards getting back to basics. I found it so interesting that regardless of gender, age or where you live, people want more oral sex.
Relationships
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My Wife Can Get Me to the Finish Line in Many Ways. Except the One I Really Want.

Some men cannot reach orgasm from oral stimulation; trying temporary abstinence, prostate stimulation, or adjusting stimulation dynamics may help but results are not guaranteed.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago

I've Tried All The Lubes. These Are The Best Ones

Kush Queen Delta 9 THC lube increases genital blood flow, enhances sensation, and can promote post-sex sleep while providing effective lubrication and self-care.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Will Sex Robots Be a Problem? Maybe

Sex robots can act as supernormal stimuli, potentially reducing intimacy, marriage and birth rates while aiding some involuntary celibates and affecting male social dynamics.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago

Ladies, We've Got To Stop Being Afraid To Sit On Our Partner's Faces (They *Love* It)

Men often enjoy face-sitting because it intensifies intimacy, centers the woman's pleasure, and creates a reversed power dynamic many find erotic.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

My Wife Suggested I Try Out a New Sexual Experience. Where It Needs to Happen, Though, Is a Whole New World to Me.

Follow posted rules, bring cash, be polite, tip well, avoid touching performers, confirm extra charges, and consider visiting during slow hours.
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