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#generational-differences
fromSilicon Canals
4 days agoMental health
Two generations are currently arguing about work ethic when what they're actually arguing about is whether suffering should be a prerequisite for dignity. One generation believes it is because that was the deal they were offered. The other is trying to renegotiate. - Silicon Canals
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoThe generation that prided itself on never needing anyone raised a generation that goes to therapy twice a week - and the distance between those two facts is where most family pain actually lives - Silicon Canals
Generational differences in mental health attitudes create family tension between parents who valued silence and independence versus adult children who openly discuss mental health and seek therapy.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
4 days agoTwo generations are currently arguing about work ethic when what they're actually arguing about is whether suffering should be a prerequisite for dignity. One generation believes it is because that was the deal they were offered. The other is trying to renegotiate. - Silicon Canals
Generational differences in work ethic stem from a broken contract between Boomers and Gen Z regarding dignity and economic stability.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoThe generation that prided itself on never needing anyone raised a generation that goes to therapy twice a week - and the distance between those two facts is where most family pain actually lives - Silicon Canals
Generational differences in mental health attitudes create family tension between parents who valued silence and independence versus adult children who openly discuss mental health and seek therapy.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoThere's a generation of people who were praised exclusively for being easy to deal with, and they became adults who genuinely cannot tell the difference between being content and being convenient. The two feelings merged so early that separating them now feels like surgery. - Silicon Canals
A false ground in electrical work symbolizes individuals raised to be easy, appearing fine but lacking true grounding in their own needs.
#friendship
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoThe friends you made between 19 and 24 know a version of you that your current partner, your therapist, and your coworkers will never meet. And the grief isn't about losing those friends. It's about losing access to the person you were with them. - Silicon Canals
Friendships formed between ages 19 and 24 serve as an identity archive, reflecting a version of oneself that no longer exists.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
11 hours agoPsychology says the loneliest part of getting older isn't being alone - it's realizing that some friendships were only meant for a season, and not everyone grows with you - Silicon Canals
Friendships often fade as adults prioritize responsibilities and seek deeper connections, leading to feelings of loneliness even among familiar faces.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoThe friends you made between 19 and 24 know a version of you that your current partner, your therapist, and your coworkers will never meet. And the grief isn't about losing those friends. It's about losing access to the person you were with them. - Silicon Canals
Friendships formed between ages 19 and 24 serve as an identity archive, reflecting a version of oneself that no longer exists.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoThere's a kind of exhaustion specific to people who grew up in the 1960s and 70s - not physical tiredness but the cumulative weight of having been reliable for so long, for so many people, with so little reciprocity, that they genuinely cannot remember what it felt like to be the one who was taken care of - Silicon Canals
Reliability can overshadow personal identity, leading to emotional exhaustion and a lack of self-care.
#parenting
Parenting
fromScary Mommy
2 days agoDo You Spend More Time With Your Kids Than Your Parents Did With You?
Parents today engage more with their children than they experienced in their own childhood.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoThe people who changed the most in their fifties and sixties weren't the ones who read the most books about it - they were the ones who experienced something that made the cost of staying the same feel higher than the cost of changing - Silicon Canals
Real change often comes from life experiences rather than information or self-help resources.
Careers
fromSilicon Canals
4 days agoI've watched three generations enter the workforce, and what Gen Z calls "hustle culture" is what my generation simply called showing up - but before you dismiss that as boomer arrogance, there's something underneath it worth understanding - Silicon Canals
Generational differences in work ethic reflect changing economic realities and expectations around fulfillment and mental health in the workplace.
#resilience
Writing
fromSilicon Canals
4 days agoThe generation raised between 1960 and 1979 wasn't given resilience as a tangible concept - they were given broken bikes, difficult parents, tight budgets, and long summers with nothing to do, which turned out to be the same thing - Silicon Canals
Learning resilience comes from necessity and hands-on experience, not from formal instruction or discussions.
Writing
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoThe children who grew up in the 60s and 70s didn't become the toughest generation because their childhoods were harder - they became the toughest generation because their childhoods were honest, and honest is different from hard because hard can be survived passively but honest requires you to look at what is actually in front of you and deal with it as it is - Silicon Canals
Childhood experiences of honesty and reality foster resilience and strength, contrasting with modern tendencies to shield children from uncomfortable truths.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
19 hours agoPeople who stop trying to be liked are often accused of having an attitude - by the people who most benefited from them having none - Silicon Canals
Setting boundaries often leads to others perceiving you as difficult or having an attitude problem, despite unchanged competence.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 hours agoA letter to the person who is terrified of giving up being single: the freedom you're protecting is real, and the loneliness you're tolerating is also real, and the courage isn't in choosing one over the other, it's in admitting you've been holding both this entire time - Silicon Canals
Long-term singleness can bring both genuine freedom and loneliness, challenging the narratives of being either broken or enlightened.
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoThe thing boomers know now that younger generations are still learning the hard way - that the people who make you feel small usually need the room you're taking up - Silicon Canals
The people who need you to shrink are dealing with their own stuff. After decades of running my own electrical contracting business, I've worked in hundreds of homes. Rich people, poor people, and everyone in between. You know what I noticed? The people who treated me like I was beneath them were always the ones fighting their own battles.
Careers
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 hours agoThere's a generation of people who were taught to apologize for their needs so effectively that as adults they experience wanting something as a form of aggression against whoever might have to provide it - Silicon Canals
Many adults associate expressing needs with guilt, viewing requests as impositions rather than natural interactions.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoThe emptiness many people feel after 70 isn't the absence of purpose - it's the absence of an audience, and those are completely different problems with completely different solutions - Silicon Canals
Retirement often leads to a loss of audience, not purpose, causing feelings of uselessness among retirees.
Careers
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoI watched my boomer mother give unsolicited opinions about my parenting, my marriage, my weight, and my career for fifteen years with the certainty of someone who had never once been wrong about anything - and the day I finally said something back was the day I understood that her certainty was not about me at all, it was the one thing she had that still made her feel like she mattered - Silicon Canals
Unsolicited advice from the boomer generation reflects deeper fears of irrelevance and a need to maintain authority.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
5 hours agoFor decades, researchers found that happiness follows a U-shaped curve - high in youth, lowest in your 40s and 50s, then rising again. Most of us are in that middle dip right now. - Silicon Canals
Happiness typically dips in midlife, reaching a low around ages 47 to 49, before increasing again into old age.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
22 hours agoThe people who grew up in houses where money was tight but the table was always set properly, the shoes always clean, and guests always fed before family - they didn't learn class from wealth, they inherited it from someone who refused to let scarcity become an excuse - Silicon Canals
Class and dignity are intertwined, with true self-respect stemming from resilience in hardship rather than wealth.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
4 days agoPeople who hate phone calls aren't being rude - they grew up in homes where the phone ringing meant something was wrong - Silicon Canals
Phone calls often evoke anxiety due to their association with bad news and unpredictability, reinforcing a sense of threat over time.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
4 days agoPsychology says the loneliest generation in history isn't Gen Z - it's the boomers who raised everyone, hosted everything, and are now sitting in quiet houses wondering where everybody went - Silicon Canals
The loneliest generation today is not Gen Z, but the baby boomers who once held social connections together.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
4 days agoPsychology says people who feel purposeless after 50 aren't lost - they've simply outgrown a self that was built entirely around what other people needed from them - Silicon Canals
Identity can be lost when roles defined by others are removed, leading to a journey of self-discovery.
Marketing
fromCity AM
3 weeks agoMeet Gen Zalpha: The new generation up-starts reshaping consumer culture
Gen Zalpha, the fusion of young Gen Z and older Gen Alpha, wields significant commercial influence through direct purchases and persuasion over parents, making them a critical target market for brands.
London politics
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month agoGenerational divide isn't as wide as you think | Letters
Intergenerational narratives are more complex than surface-level rivalry suggests, with significant commonalities between generations but stark inequality emerging around climate change and economic opportunity.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoNobody tells you that expecting instant replies is a relatively new social norm - and that an entire generation learned to communicate in ways that never required it - Silicon Canals
Instant communication has created pressure that undermines meaningful relationships, which thrived in a slower-paced era of correspondence.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks agoPsychology explains people who grew up in the 1960s aren't just private - they struggle to open up from being raised in an era when family problems stayed behind closed doors - Silicon Canals
Generational emotional suppression in men stems from cultural norms that discourage expressing feelings, leading to difficulties in emotional communication.
Social media marketing
fromMuse by Clios | Discover the latest creative marketing and advertising news. Muse by Clio is the premier news site covering creativity in advertising and beyond.
4 weeks agoPSA: Your Gran Misses Your Instagram Posts | Muse by Clios
One-third of social media users post less than a year ago, while still spending over two hours daily scrolling, as algorithmic feeds prioritize ads and influencer content over authentic peer connections.
Women in technology
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month agoGen Z men twice as likely as baby boomers to believe wives should obey husbands
Generation Z men hold more traditional gender role views than older generations, with nearly a third believing wives should obey husbands and a third wanting final decision-making authority.
Digital life
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month agoWhy is everyone so obsessed with gen Z?
Generation Z is the most studied generation due to their unique digital immersion from infancy, distinctive behaviors, and significant economic influence on employers and marketers seeking to understand and reach them.
UK news
fromSilicon Canals
2 months agoI grew up in the 70s and didn't realize these 8 childhood experiences were unusual until I talked to younger generations - Silicon Canals
1970s childhoods involved unsupervised outdoor freedom that fostered independence, problem-solving, and risk assessment, unlike today's highly supervised childhoods.
History
fromSilicon Canals
2 months agoPeople who grew up in the 60s and 70s usually have these 10 qualities that younger generations find remarkable - Silicon Canals
Adults raised in the 1960s-70s retain practical repair skills, strong memory, resourcefulness, and work approaches that often impress younger generations.
fromMail Online
2 months agoThe 'perfect' man and woman, according to different generations
'Overall, the research shows that preferences for attractiveness shift from lighter hair in Boomer women to darker hair and more athletic body types in Millennials and Gen Z,' the CREO Clinic explained. 'Men are generally most attractive with inverted triangle or trapezoid shaped builds, while the hourglass figure remains the preferred body type for women. 'Eye colour moves from blue in Boomers to brown in later generations, and wavy hair is typically favoured for men, whereas straight hair is more often preferred for women.'
Fashion & style
Digital life
fromBuzzFeed
1 month agoOlder Adults Are Sharing The Unique Experiences From The Past That Have Gen Z'ers Dumfounded
Older adults commonly experienced home gardens and meals, operator-connected phone calls, unrestrained car seating (rumble seats/truck beds), and informal store-credit systems.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago8 things boomers swore they'd never become that they've slowly turned into anyway-and their kids see it even if they don't - Silicon Canals
A generation that once embraced change has become resistant to technology and critical of younger generations while repeating the same behaviors they condemned.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 months agoIf you still say "excuse me" when no one's even in your way, you were raised with these 7 rules most people under 40 never learned - Silicon Canals
Childhood etiquette teaches unspoken rules—courtesy, reciprocity, respect, and contribution—that shape everyday behavior and sustain communal trust in modern social life.
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