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#infertility

A wily trial lawyer I once worked for delighted in asking outrageous personal questions, and people almost always answered him. "Never forget," he told me, "a question asked is not necessarily a question you have to answer." That got me thinking. When I was feeling tender, defensive, or vulnerable, I wasn't ready to explain my situation. Then I decided I had every right to skirt the subject, because my reproductive status was no one's business but my own.

"If I had known about freezing eggs and doing IVF in my 20s, I would have done it," she says. "But it wasn't talked about as much as it is now, and I think that's why I'm so open and honest about it."

Generally, when we need medical intervention, we look for the most effective option. If we need cancer treatment, most of us don't think twice about doing all we can to get rid of the cancer; we also take medicine to control our cholesterol or anything else that seems off balance. You may be thinking, "Well, those things are potentially life-threatening." Ok, then what about getting a cast if we break a bone rather than letting it heal on its own?

Erectile dysfunction medication often isn't enough; mental state plays a significant role in such issues. The right support is crucial, requiring a partner's desire for solutions.

"Every single one of us is a mom in that room, and we could all feel her pain because she wants this so badly," cast member Whitney Leavitt tells TODAY.com.