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Lobsters and the Meaning of Life

Lobsters teach valuable lessons about growth and transformation as we age.

Opinion | Why I Write My Own Obituary Every Year

Writing your own obituary annually can promote reflection on life, death, and legacy.

Why Your Purpose Changes Over Time and How to Embrace It | Entrepreneur

Seeking life and work purpose evolves over time and is influenced by experiences and challenges.

Frank Auerbach remembered by his son Jake

The author's relationship with his father evolved from distant childhood memories to shared passions and ultimate companionship.

Modern Love' Podcast: Finding the Magic, Just in Time

Clare Cory found love after embracing life and happiness on her own terms, even as she faced cancer and turned 60.

This Dating Guru Has Brutally Honest Advice For Your Single Era

Kai emphasizes that it's acceptable not to conform to societal milestones by 30, advocating for the validity of different life paths.

Lobsters and the Meaning of Life

Lobsters teach valuable lessons about growth and transformation as we age.

Opinion | Why I Write My Own Obituary Every Year

Writing your own obituary annually can promote reflection on life, death, and legacy.

Why Your Purpose Changes Over Time and How to Embrace It | Entrepreneur

Seeking life and work purpose evolves over time and is influenced by experiences and challenges.

Frank Auerbach remembered by his son Jake

The author's relationship with his father evolved from distant childhood memories to shared passions and ultimate companionship.

Modern Love' Podcast: Finding the Magic, Just in Time

Clare Cory found love after embracing life and happiness on her own terms, even as she faced cancer and turned 60.

This Dating Guru Has Brutally Honest Advice For Your Single Era

Kai emphasizes that it's acceptable not to conform to societal milestones by 30, advocating for the validity of different life paths.
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#parenting

For me, the wig was the key': how I defied family expectations to become a criminal barrister

Encouraging children to pursue ambitious dreams fosters creativity and exploration in their development.
Parents' support of children's aspirations contrasts with past generations' limitations.

I'm a mom of 5 and became a millionaire at 39. I drive a Honda Accord, order water when dining out, and don't pay for the kids' college.

Julia Myers achieved her goal of becoming a millionaire by age 40, while instilling values of frugality and financial independence in her children.

'Always say hello.' 5 life lessons from raising a child with Down syndrome

The experience of raising a child with Down syndrome teaches families to appreciate life's moments and fosters community connections.

My Son Expects Me to Wreck My Nest Egg to Fix His Absurd Financial Mistakes

Financial habits can be inherited, often despite parental guidance.
Teaching fiscal responsibility doesn't always ensure children will follow those lessons.

Tom Hanks gets candid about fatherhood and what his children taught him

Tom Hanks reflects on his challenging childhood and aims to parent differently, despite recognizing he still makes mistakes with his children.

I was a teen dad on food stamps. Now that I'm a multimillionaire, teaching my kids to appreciate money is really difficult.

John Wetmore transformed his life from a paycheck-to-paycheck existence to becoming a multimillionaire, emphasizing the importance of learning from financial hardships.

For me, the wig was the key': how I defied family expectations to become a criminal barrister

Encouraging children to pursue ambitious dreams fosters creativity and exploration in their development.
Parents' support of children's aspirations contrasts with past generations' limitations.

I'm a mom of 5 and became a millionaire at 39. I drive a Honda Accord, order water when dining out, and don't pay for the kids' college.

Julia Myers achieved her goal of becoming a millionaire by age 40, while instilling values of frugality and financial independence in her children.

'Always say hello.' 5 life lessons from raising a child with Down syndrome

The experience of raising a child with Down syndrome teaches families to appreciate life's moments and fosters community connections.

My Son Expects Me to Wreck My Nest Egg to Fix His Absurd Financial Mistakes

Financial habits can be inherited, often despite parental guidance.
Teaching fiscal responsibility doesn't always ensure children will follow those lessons.

Tom Hanks gets candid about fatherhood and what his children taught him

Tom Hanks reflects on his challenging childhood and aims to parent differently, despite recognizing he still makes mistakes with his children.

I was a teen dad on food stamps. Now that I'm a multimillionaire, teaching my kids to appreciate money is really difficult.

John Wetmore transformed his life from a paycheck-to-paycheck existence to becoming a multimillionaire, emphasizing the importance of learning from financial hardships.
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#grief

Lessons from Death and Awakening to an Authentic Life - Tiny Buddha

Embracing conversations about death can reduce its fearfulness and promote gratitude for life.

Most things don't matter that much

Most things don't matter that much, particularly material possessions compared to love and relationships.

3 lessons on how to have a long, fulfilling career I learned from my cats

Paku's life teaches valuable lessons about longevity, change adaptation, and making the most of the time we have.
Cherishing the bond with pets can illuminate personal growth and life insights.

The Bright Side by Sumit Paul-Choudhury review harnessing the power of positive thinking

Embracing optimism is essential in navigating life's unpredictability, according to Sumit Paul-Choudhury.

Lessons from Death and Awakening to an Authentic Life - Tiny Buddha

Embracing conversations about death can reduce its fearfulness and promote gratitude for life.

Most things don't matter that much

Most things don't matter that much, particularly material possessions compared to love and relationships.

3 lessons on how to have a long, fulfilling career I learned from my cats

Paku's life teaches valuable lessons about longevity, change adaptation, and making the most of the time we have.
Cherishing the bond with pets can illuminate personal growth and life insights.

The Bright Side by Sumit Paul-Choudhury review harnessing the power of positive thinking

Embracing optimism is essential in navigating life's unpredictability, according to Sumit Paul-Choudhury.
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What Taylor Swift Can Teach My Daughter About Love

It's okay to desire joy and love, as illustrated in the emotional experiences shared in Swift's songs.
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Jimmy Carter: An Early Recollection From a Well-Lived Life

Jimmy Carter's first memory embodies his lifelong quest for usefulness and recognition in improving the lives of others.
#personal-finance

My dad sacrificed everything to retire early - only to die before he could enjoy it. I'll never recommend early retirement to anyone.

Frugality can lead to a fulfilling lifestyle, but an overly frugal mindset may detract from enjoying life fully.

I don't give Christmas gifts. The holidays got better when I stopped playing the 'who bought the most expensive present' game.

Michael Allen prioritizes meaningful experiences with loved ones over expensive gifts, recognizing the importance of financial reality and communication.

I was the sole breadwinner in my family for 10 years. I've learned money can sometimes buy happiness.

Money can buy happiness, but living within your means enhances family well-being.
Taking care of oneself is crucial for being a good provider and family member.
Emotional experiences of raising children as a sole breadwinner include stress but predominantly joy and connection.

My 16-year-old got her first job at a restaurant. Having a paycheck helped her understand the value of money.

Teaching responsibility and finance through summer jobs is key in teen development.

My dad sacrificed everything to retire early - only to die before he could enjoy it. I'll never recommend early retirement to anyone.

Frugality can lead to a fulfilling lifestyle, but an overly frugal mindset may detract from enjoying life fully.

I don't give Christmas gifts. The holidays got better when I stopped playing the 'who bought the most expensive present' game.

Michael Allen prioritizes meaningful experiences with loved ones over expensive gifts, recognizing the importance of financial reality and communication.

I was the sole breadwinner in my family for 10 years. I've learned money can sometimes buy happiness.

Money can buy happiness, but living within your means enhances family well-being.
Taking care of oneself is crucial for being a good provider and family member.
Emotional experiences of raising children as a sole breadwinner include stress but predominantly joy and connection.

My 16-year-old got her first job at a restaurant. Having a paycheck helped her understand the value of money.

Teaching responsibility and finance through summer jobs is key in teen development.
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Gal Gadot diagnosed with 'massive blood clot' in her brain during fourth pregnancy

Gal Gadot shares her terrifying health scare during pregnancy, emphasizing the fragility of life and the importance of listening to one’s body.
#aging

I'm 67 and can't afford to retire. I'm moving away from my grandchild to work less and enjoy a lower cost of living.

Financial planning for retirement is crucial, as failure can lead to ongoing work into later years and difficult life choices.

Harriette Cole: How to be a mother who abides and inspires

Celebrating mothers by highlighting values of gratitude, focus, and teaching through life experiences, encapsulated in the story of the author's mother.

I didn't like how I looked growing up. I regret not having photos of special moments because of it.

Documenting life moments is about memory, not appearance.

I'm 67 and can't afford to retire. I'm moving away from my grandchild to work less and enjoy a lower cost of living.

Financial planning for retirement is crucial, as failure can lead to ongoing work into later years and difficult life choices.

Harriette Cole: How to be a mother who abides and inspires

Celebrating mothers by highlighting values of gratitude, focus, and teaching through life experiences, encapsulated in the story of the author's mother.

I didn't like how I looked growing up. I regret not having photos of special moments because of it.

Documenting life moments is about memory, not appearance.
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#resilience

Why "Good" or "Bad" Outcomes Aren't Always What They Seem

Setbacks can lead to unexpected growth and opportunities if approached with the right mindset.
Reframing adversity through specific questions helps develop resilience and psychological flexibility.

The Best Gifts: 4 Lessons in Resilience

The journey through chronic illness is navigated with resilience, optimism, and support from loved ones.

How Sherri Shepherd fought her way to the Hollywood Walk of Fame

Sherri Shepherd's life journey exemplifies resilience and sacrifice, highlighting her transition from facing eviction to gaining recognition in Hollywood.

Sven-Goran Eriksson's final message: 'Life is always, always to be celebrated'

Celebrate life even in disappointment.
Positivity can be found in challenging moments.

Why "Good" or "Bad" Outcomes Aren't Always What They Seem

Setbacks can lead to unexpected growth and opportunities if approached with the right mindset.
Reframing adversity through specific questions helps develop resilience and psychological flexibility.

The Best Gifts: 4 Lessons in Resilience

The journey through chronic illness is navigated with resilience, optimism, and support from loved ones.

How Sherri Shepherd fought her way to the Hollywood Walk of Fame

Sherri Shepherd's life journey exemplifies resilience and sacrifice, highlighting her transition from facing eviction to gaining recognition in Hollywood.

Sven-Goran Eriksson's final message: 'Life is always, always to be celebrated'

Celebrate life even in disappointment.
Positivity can be found in challenging moments.
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I'm a Gen Zer who faced an existential crisis after college. My millennial siblings helped me cope.

Navigating adulthood as a recent graduate involves embracing uncertainties and learning from the experiences of others, particularly older siblings.
#personal-reflection

A Beginner's Guide to Dying by Simon Boas review an extraordinary book

Bob Boas's columns on mortality resonated with many, showcasing his vibrant life and equanimity in facing death.

17 Heart-Pounding Stories From People Who Cheated Death By Luck, Fate, Or Sheer Willpower

A childhood experience highlights the precariousness of life and the importance of recognizing unseen dangers.

I bought a farm, hated the cows, and sold it. Then somehow, I bought another | John Humphrys

The author's journey highlights the complexities and unexpected challenges of rural life and home renovation.
Neighborly relationships are significant and can play a vital role in one's happiness.

A Beginner's Guide to Dying by Simon Boas review an extraordinary book

Bob Boas's columns on mortality resonated with many, showcasing his vibrant life and equanimity in facing death.

17 Heart-Pounding Stories From People Who Cheated Death By Luck, Fate, Or Sheer Willpower

A childhood experience highlights the precariousness of life and the importance of recognizing unseen dangers.

I bought a farm, hated the cows, and sold it. Then somehow, I bought another | John Humphrys

The author's journey highlights the complexities and unexpected challenges of rural life and home renovation.
Neighborly relationships are significant and can play a vital role in one's happiness.
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#nostalgia

Opinion | 10 Life Lessons for Grown-ups From Children's Classics

Children's books offer enduring insights for adults, emphasizing themes of consequence, nostalgia, communication, and the importance of reconciliation.

Older People Are Revealing The Youthful Mistakes They Regret The Most

People often regret not appreciating carefree moments and quality time with loved ones during their younger years.

Opinion | 10 Life Lessons for Grown-ups From Children's Classics

Children's books offer enduring insights for adults, emphasizing themes of consequence, nostalgia, communication, and the importance of reconciliation.

Older People Are Revealing The Youthful Mistakes They Regret The Most

People often regret not appreciating carefree moments and quality time with loved ones during their younger years.
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At 38, Calais Campbell is still wrecking games: I might just do this until the wheels fall off'

Calais Campbell's success is deeply influenced by the lifelong lessons instilled by his father.
#travel

Why We Moved to Lisbon (Portugal)

Traveling extensively can lead to exhaustion and diminished joy in new experiences.
Settling down allows for pursuing other interests and ensures better security and health.
The digital nomad lifestyle poses unique challenges, especially for older generations.

Moving from the US to Morocco taught me a different way of living. I sundry my clothes and consume less.

Studying abroad inspired me to explore the world and embrace new cultures through firsthand experiences in Morocco.

I quit my corporate job and moved to Europe to become a freelance copywriter. It's been challenging, but I'm glad I stuck it out.

Dalia Goldberg's journey illustrates the challenges and rewards of pursuing a freelance writing career abroad.

Why We Moved to Lisbon (Portugal)

Traveling extensively can lead to exhaustion and diminished joy in new experiences.
Settling down allows for pursuing other interests and ensures better security and health.
The digital nomad lifestyle poses unique challenges, especially for older generations.

Moving from the US to Morocco taught me a different way of living. I sundry my clothes and consume less.

Studying abroad inspired me to explore the world and embrace new cultures through firsthand experiences in Morocco.

I quit my corporate job and moved to Europe to become a freelance copywriter. It's been challenging, but I'm glad I stuck it out.

Dalia Goldberg's journey illustrates the challenges and rewards of pursuing a freelance writing career abroad.
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The Most Powerful Quotes from 21 People Who Shaped History

Inspirational quotes from influential historical figures provide valuable life lessons and guidance to others.
#culinary-experiences

Missing Summer? Let This Shrimp Take You Back

Gathering with others around a meal fosters connections and can help extend the tranquility felt during vacations.

Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall: I've never thought of myself as eccentric. I still don't'

Emphasizing the importance of learning and adaptation in cooking, while balancing personal experiences with culinary practices.

Missing Summer? Let This Shrimp Take You Back

Gathering with others around a meal fosters connections and can help extend the tranquility felt during vacations.

Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall: I've never thought of myself as eccentric. I still don't'

Emphasizing the importance of learning and adaptation in cooking, while balancing personal experiences with culinary practices.
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Tim Minchin: Maybe scrolling the traumas of the world is not in itself a moral act'

Tim Minchin emphasizes the importance of genuine skill and luck in achieving success, rather than shortcuts or self-promotion.
#family

For his 80th birthday, my dad asked for the gift of time. What we gave him will last generations | Ranjana Srivastava

The author's life lessons from their father emphasize self-reliance, fearlessness in decision-making, and the importance of embracing new experiences.

My Mexican Mom's "Como Tienes" Life Motto Keeps Me Less Stressed and More Organized

A clean room fosters a clear mind, reducing stress and enhancing focus.

For his 80th birthday, my dad asked for the gift of time. What we gave him will last generations | Ranjana Srivastava

The author's life lessons from their father emphasize self-reliance, fearlessness in decision-making, and the importance of embracing new experiences.

My Mexican Mom's "Como Tienes" Life Motto Keeps Me Less Stressed and More Organized

A clean room fosters a clear mind, reducing stress and enhancing focus.
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Who went out of I'm a Celebrity tonight? See third campmate to leave the jungle

The latest contestant voted off 'I'm a Celebrity' was Tulisa Contostavlos, following Dean McCullough's recent departure.
#friendship

Grandma and man she accidentally texted for Thanksgiving to reunite for 9th year

Wanda Dench and Jamal Hinton are celebrating their ninth Thanksgiving together, despite Dench's recent breast cancer diagnosis.

I moved to Alaska after college for a job. I lost all my friends because I put my career first.

Career shouldn't come at the expense of personal relationships; life is bigger than work.

Grandma and man she accidentally texted for Thanksgiving to reunite for 9th year

Wanda Dench and Jamal Hinton are celebrating their ninth Thanksgiving together, despite Dench's recent breast cancer diagnosis.

I moved to Alaska after college for a job. I lost all my friends because I put my career first.

Career shouldn't come at the expense of personal relationships; life is bigger than work.
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#humor

15 Deathbed Confessions That Left Family Members Heartbroken, Bewildered, Or Utterly Appalled

Despite lifelong bickering, the couple's 75-year marriage showcases the complexities of love and commitment in family dynamics.

How My Dog's Stubbornness on Our Walks Taught Me More About Mindfulness

Acceptance of your pet's behavior can lead to a more pleasant experience during walks.

15 Deathbed Confessions That Left Family Members Heartbroken, Bewildered, Or Utterly Appalled

Despite lifelong bickering, the couple's 75-year marriage showcases the complexities of love and commitment in family dynamics.

How My Dog's Stubbornness on Our Walks Taught Me More About Mindfulness

Acceptance of your pet's behavior can lead to a more pleasant experience during walks.
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#warren-buffett

According to Warren Buffett, this is the most important thing to do if you find yourself in a hole

Warren Buffett's life lessons on investing and personal growth are particularly relevant for those in their 40s.

Warren Buffett's Blueprint for a Successful Retirement

Warren Buffett's life lessons advocate for focusing on passion and purpose for a fulfilling life, especially for those in their 50s.

Everyone in Their 20s Needs to Read This Warren Buffett Advice

Warren Buffett exemplifies humility in wealth, focusing on charitable donations over luxury purchases.

According to Warren Buffett, this is the most important thing to do if you find yourself in a hole

Warren Buffett's life lessons on investing and personal growth are particularly relevant for those in their 40s.

Warren Buffett's Blueprint for a Successful Retirement

Warren Buffett's life lessons advocate for focusing on passion and purpose for a fulfilling life, especially for those in their 50s.

Everyone in Their 20s Needs to Read This Warren Buffett Advice

Warren Buffett exemplifies humility in wealth, focusing on charitable donations over luxury purchases.
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When her key broke in the ignition, a car thief saved the day

A stranger's unexpected kindness can lead to memorable experiences and lessons about trust.

Asking Eric: I feel bitter about these people's picayune complaints

Life is fleeting; focus on gratitude rather than bitterness towards others' complaints.

You Are Not the Movie

Movies are a metaphor for life, but what we perceive as real often turns out to be illusions.

Matthew Lillard's career ground to a halt after 'Scooby-Doo 2' flopped: 'I thought I was never going to work again'

Lillard's career dramatically shifted after the failure of 'Scooby-Doo 2', leading him to redefine success and explore entrepreneurship.
#memoir

Pedro Almodovar: Life needs fiction to make it bearable'

Fiction is essential for a more bearable life, as taught by Almodovar's mother.

Former South Bronx chess teacher publishes memoir, reflects on career that transformed young lives - Bronx Times

Teaching chess transformed MacEnulty's life and the lives of his South Bronx students, leading to lasting connections and personal growth.

I had never really considered bad luck before. A brilliant memoir changed all that | Adrian Chiles

Davy Russell's memoir explores luck in racing, urging readers to appreciate the absence of bad luck as much as good fortune.

Pedro Almodovar: Life needs fiction to make it bearable'

Fiction is essential for a more bearable life, as taught by Almodovar's mother.

Former South Bronx chess teacher publishes memoir, reflects on career that transformed young lives - Bronx Times

Teaching chess transformed MacEnulty's life and the lives of his South Bronx students, leading to lasting connections and personal growth.

I had never really considered bad luck before. A brilliant memoir changed all that | Adrian Chiles

Davy Russell's memoir explores luck in racing, urging readers to appreciate the absence of bad luck as much as good fortune.
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How To Go Deaf | Defector

Empathy has defined boundaries; true understanding comes from personal experiences.

Liam Payne's letter to 10-year-old self revealed: 'You're about to meet four other guys on the same track as you are'

Cherish each moment and remember that fame comes with challenges, but you are not alone in facing them.

I died and went to heaven - here are 3 crucial lessons I was taught

Tolman's coma experience revealed key life lessons on authenticity, purpose, and love, altering his perspective on life and death.
#mental-health

Name the famous person who said, 'You can observe a lot by watching.'

Yogi Berra's life lessons offer practical wisdom for navigating life's challenges.

My daughter was excited to see Chappell Roan live. When she canceled our concert, it gave me space to teach a valuable lesson.

Understanding the balance between mental health and professional commitments is crucial for artists and their fans.

Name the famous person who said, 'You can observe a lot by watching.'

Yogi Berra's life lessons offer practical wisdom for navigating life's challenges.

My daughter was excited to see Chappell Roan live. When she canceled our concert, it gave me space to teach a valuable lesson.

Understanding the balance between mental health and professional commitments is crucial for artists and their fans.
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Patience: The Key to Navigating Life's Unexpected Turns

Patience is a powerful and often unrecognized virtue, especially in high-pressure situations like troubleshooting technology.

I'm 58 and work as a nanny. I wish I could be as present with my own grandchildren.

Sharon Binkey finds fulfillment in her role as a nanny despite personal family estrangements.
#community-engagement

2024 NextGen in PR and Marketing: Hailey Yeager - Birmingham Business Journal

Making a significant impact through mentorship and community engagement in social media is highly rewarding.
Establishing balance and boundaries is crucial for success and well-being in the social media profession.

Mathews: The California magic in Uncle Jim's wonderful life

Jim Mathews exemplified how a meaningful life is filled with small joys and deep community connections, rather than conventional achievements.

2024 NextGen in PR and Marketing: Hailey Yeager - Birmingham Business Journal

Making a significant impact through mentorship and community engagement in social media is highly rewarding.
Establishing balance and boundaries is crucial for success and well-being in the social media profession.

Mathews: The California magic in Uncle Jim's wonderful life

Jim Mathews exemplified how a meaningful life is filled with small joys and deep community connections, rather than conventional achievements.
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It would not get made today': Todd Solondz on his shocking paedophile film Happiness

Creative endeavors can lead to unexpected challenges and opportunities, as seen in the journey from writing to casting for the film Happiness.

21 Real-Life Stories About The One Who Got Away That Hit Me Right In The Heart

Lost love stories reveal deep regrets and valuable life lessons, emphasizing the importance of seizing chances when it comes to romance.

This is how you focus when everything feels like a distraction

Training techniques from elite athletes can help with everyday distractions and maintaining focus.

7 Cute & Cozy Books To Read With Your Kid This Fall

Fall is a prime time to enhance children's reading with seasonal favorites that include positive messages and life lessons.
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