fromSlate Magazine
22 hours agoI've Been a Couples Therapist for 25 Years. I Know the Dark Truth About Couples Who "Don't Fight."
When you're with the right person, it's effortless (wrong). Never go to bed angry (also wrong). Relationship advice is often centered on the idea that we shouldn't experience frustration with each other, a sentiment that sounds nice, in theory. In reality, that goal keeps us repeating the same patterns and wondering why we keep having the same fight; why our partner still doesn't understand us; or why we feel alone.
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