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Music production
fromKALTBLUT Magazine
1 day ago

Sibb Unveils "Mine": A Soulful Critique of Hypersexuality - KALTBLUT Magazine

Sibb's single 'Mine' critiques hypersexuality, marking a pivotal shift in his music narrative and launching a cinematic trilogy.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 day ago

The Minute This Sex Toy Enters the Bedroom, My Night Is Ruined

Using vibrators during sex can create challenges for tops seeking satisfaction and connection with their partners.
#sex-education
SF LGBT
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 day ago

Let's talk about sex in a world of porn | Letter

Straight male authors should embrace writing about sex, but the urgent conversation on sexual knowledge and pleasure is happening outside of literature.
Women in technology
fromEsquire
1 month ago

I Was a Porn Star for Decades. Now, as "the Vagician," I Teach Men How to Have Sex.

Marcus London, a 58-year-old porn performer with 4,000 sexual partners, transitioned from adult entertainment to sex education, teaching men techniques that reportedly improved their relationships and sexual satisfaction.
SF LGBT
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 day ago

Let's talk about sex in a world of porn | Letter

Straight male authors should embrace writing about sex, but the urgent conversation on sexual knowledge and pleasure is happening outside of literature.
Women in technology
fromEsquire
1 month ago

I Was a Porn Star for Decades. Now, as "the Vagician," I Teach Men How to Have Sex.

Marcus London, a 58-year-old porn performer with 4,000 sexual partners, transitioned from adult entertainment to sex education, teaching men techniques that reportedly improved their relationships and sexual satisfaction.
Berlin
fromwww.dw.com
3 days ago

What we call sex work and what it says about society

Sex work has been represented and regulated throughout history, reflecting societal attitudes and moral discourses.
fromSlate Magazine
4 days ago

She Taught Women How to Orgasm. Decades Later, Her Impact Can Still Be Felt.

Hite learned early on that women walk a sexual tightrope: 'If you had too much sex, you could be shunned like her mother was; if you didn't have enough, you could be deserted like her grandmother.'
Books
Arts
fromwww.theguardian.com
5 days ago

Art, sex, nature: why is everything sold to us as a means to an end, rather than an end in itself?

Art should be valued for its own sake, not merely for its utilitarian benefits or health claims.
Film
fromQueerty
1 week ago

The wild world of virtual sex work: 6 essential queer cam stories - Queerty

Camming has become a significant form of sex work, especially among queer individuals seeking creative freedom or economic necessity.
Writing
fromwww.amny.com
1 week ago

Welcome to the Wasteland': A queer sex memoir' that throws out all the rules in written word and art | amNewYork

Collaboration between Scooter LaForge and Jason Haaf resulted in the book Wasteland, showcasing a blend of art and personal reflections.
Books
fromwww.theguardian.com
6 days ago

Too hot to handle? Why it's time for straight male authors to rediscover sex

Straight male writers often avoid writing about sex, fearing it may seem exploitative or gratuitous, unlike their female counterparts.
#queer-cinema
Film
fromAnOther
1 week ago

Night Stage: Anatomy of a Modern Erotic Thriller

Night Stage explores hidden desires and the challenges queer individuals face in a heteronormative society through its narrative and character dynamics.
fromQueerty
2 months ago
LGBT

Can true love be found in a sex club? The explicit and emotional Theo & Hugo says "Hell yeah!" - Queerty

fromQueerty
2 months ago
LGBT

Sixty years before Pillion, this leather boy bromance became an early queer classic - Queerty

Film
fromAnOther
1 week ago

Night Stage: Anatomy of a Modern Erotic Thriller

Night Stage explores hidden desires and the challenges queer individuals face in a heteronormative society through its narrative and character dynamics.
fromQueerty
2 months ago
LGBT

Can true love be found in a sex club? The explicit and emotional Theo & Hugo says "Hell yeah!" - Queerty

fromQueerty
2 months ago
LGBT

Sixty years before Pillion, this leather boy bromance became an early queer classic - Queerty

Berlin music
fromKALTBLUT Magazine
3 weeks ago

Fetishnale Berlin 2026: A Daring Celebration of Desire and Art - KALTBLUT Magazine

Fetishnale Berlin 2026 is an art festival exploring fetish, BDSM, and kink through diverse creative expressions from April 21 to 26.
Writing
fromJezebel
3 weeks ago

The King of My Unrealized Mythical Erotica Dreams

Spring inspires imagination and exploration of fantasy erotica, highlighting the appeal of art that transcends traditional boundaries.
fromHuffPost
3 weeks ago

This Sex Position Reliably Gets Women Off, And You May Not Have Heard Of It

"Roughly two-thirds of women don't have an orgasm with penetration alone. CAT offers direct pressure and rocking and grinding that gives women additional clitoral stimulation."
Women in technology
Film
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

Night Stage review public sex enthusiasm the key to extravagant and subversive erotic thriller

An erotic thriller from Brazil blends realism with bizarre elements, focusing on public sex and its implications for identity and desire.
fromSlate Magazine
4 weeks ago

Hot Celebrities Are Reading Smut Aloud for Romance Fans. I Tried Listening-and Kind of Liked It.

Quinn's founder, Caroline Spiegel, described Ember & Ice as a mashup of Brokeback Mountain and A Court of Thorns and Roses, featuring two young men who have a secret romantic relationship.
Television
Relationships
fromQueerty
8 months ago

What is a pillow princess & how do you know if you are one? - Queerty

Pillow princesses prefer receiving in bed, not necessarily indicating laziness, but rather personal preference in sexual dynamics.
#lgbtq-romance
Relationships
fromwww.theguardian.com
5 days ago

I have just one secret from my husband. If he reads this, even that will be gone | Emma Beddington

Secrets in relationships can be both harmful and beneficial, depending on their nature and impact on psychological wellbeing.
Relationships
fromEsquire
1 week ago

After My Divorce, I Discovered Rope Play. It Changed My Sex Life.

Gianluca's late-in-life divorce led him to explore dating apps and unexpected experiences in intimacy and self-discovery.
#bdsm
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago
LGBT

Who Is Kinky?

Up to 96% of people fantasize about kinky sex, while 20-83% have tried it, though fewer identify as kinky due to stigma and social perception.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

My Boyfriend Wants Me to Play a New Risque Role in Bed. But My History Will Make It Impossible.

Communicate boundaries clearly and compassionately regarding BDSM interests due to past trauma.
LGBT
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Who Is Kinky?

Up to 96% of people fantasize about kinky sex, while 20-83% have tried it, though fewer identify as kinky due to stigma and social perception.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

My Boyfriend Wants Me to Play a New Risque Role in Bed. But My History Will Make It Impossible.

Communicate boundaries clearly and compassionately regarding BDSM interests due to past trauma.
fromKALTBLUT Magazine
4 weeks ago

Reflections of Desire: A Sensual Journey Through Heartbreak in The Mirror - KALTBLUT Magazine

The Mirror uses erotic cinema as a narrative tool to explore something rarely addressed in this genre: the emotional aftermath of a breakup, where desire, memory, and fantasy intertwine as Roberto tries to understand what has happened to his relationship.
Film
Relationships
fromHuffPost
1 week ago

Embracing 'Outercourse' Might Totally Transform Your Sex Life

Outercourse encompasses various sexual activities beyond penetration, enhancing sexual pleasure and intimacy.
fromFast Company
1 month ago

Sex kink is way more common than you think. This dating app's free tool lets anybody explore those taboos

Nearly half of non-Feeld users (42%) said they practice kink, compared to 68% of the app's user base. In some areas, everyday folks were even kinkier than Feeld members: Among those who practice kink, 44% of external respondents said they engage in role play, just above the 41% of Feeld users that said the same.
LGBT
Health
fromHuffPost
1 month ago

This Simple Oral Sex Hack Is Going Viral

Acupressure at specific points, particularly Large Intestine 4 between the thumb and index finger, can help suppress the gag reflex during oral sex by calming stomach and related meridians.
Relationships
fromQueerty
2 weeks ago

Sexpert explains the science behind "just okay" oral & why BJs don't always end in climax - Queerty

Oral sex often doesn't lead to climax for men due to different sensations compared to penetration.
#sexual-desire
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago
Medicine

A rush of blood to the penis - and vaginal tenting: what happens to our bodies when we get turned on

Sexual desire arises from both spontaneous urges and responses to environmental cues, shaped by hormones, memory, and learned behaviors.
Photography
fromAnOther
1 month ago

Brianna Capozzi's New Photo Book Unlocks the Eroticism of the Female Body

Brianna Capozzi's photo book Womanizer celebrates women's sexuality and confidence through glamorous portraits spanning 15 years of her photographic work.
fromArtforum
1 month ago

CARNAL KNOWLEDGE

Finally, all the consciousness I had left was in the center of my head. It was like a little light, and finally it went click. . . . And what I saw with this was my body lashed to the wall, about ten feet away.
Film
#sexuality
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

I Love Sex With Other Women. I Can't Explain My Most Persistent Fantasy.

Changing unwanted sexual fantasies is difficult, especially when they are tied to negative past experiences.
Psychology
fromMail Online
2 months ago

Revealed: What your sexual fantasies say about you

Frequent sexual fantasies associate with higher neuroticism and depression risk, while infrequent fantasies link to greater conscientiousness or agreeableness.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Don't Manifest More Pleasure. Do This Instead

Visualising "your best life" can boost mood and create a sense of hopefulness. That good feeling you get, and the boost in your mood, are nothing to sneeze at, but-and there is a but-feeling good is not the same as creating change. And this is where it can get tricky when you are applying it to a sex life that you actively want to change.
Miscellaneous
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

When My Girlfriend Went Down on Me, I Instantly Knew Something Was Very Wrong. Then I Realized What She'd Done.

Spicy food can cause discomfort during oral sex, leading to communication issues between partners.
London music
fromKALTBLUT Magazine
2 months ago

Sound of the Week: Balderdasch - Homoerotic - KALTBLUT Magazine

Balderdasch’s "Homoerotic" fuses pulsating electro-industrial production with confrontational queer-rave energy and lyrical themes of repression, reinvention, and vulnerability.
fromwww.mediaite.com
2 months ago

Eric Swalwell's Cringey Erotic Poetry Revealed: Kissing Till Veins Imploded and Exploded'

Hungover From Burgundy by Eric Swalwell And there beauty was, Formless and magnificent A flurry of limbs and nails. She chased and I ran, I chased and She ran. Atop my hotel we stopped, And I lept for cloth and tan, My anxious arm she bit my scar is beautiful. While I screamed, She bent her lips to mine. Kissing till veins imploded and exploded, Till blood rolled down our chins. For bounded mouths cannot speak of parting. In the morning, I woke beside beauty's shadow Her form sloppy and her legs pale. My scar lost, My lips cracked and dry. And we groaned simultaneously.
California
Books
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago

Smut Books To Read When You Want To Get Hot But You're Too Lazy To Have Sex

Short, steamy smut novels and sexy romances provide quick, low-effort ways for exhausted parents to get aroused alone or with a partner.
#praise-kink
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
1 month ago

Why "Praise Kink" Might Be The Perfect Dirty Talk For You & Your Partner

Praise kink is a sexual desire for affirmation and positive feedback that activates the brain's reward center, making it an accessible entry point into kink exploration for partners seeking deeper connection.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
1 month ago

Why Do Women Like To Be Called 'Good Girl' In Bed? Sexperts Explain

Women may enjoy being called 'good girl' during sex because it combines mild submission with praise, often indicating a praise kink or power dynamic preference without requiring full BDSM engagement.
Books
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

How to Put Sex in a Novel

Contemporary literary fiction increasingly avoids depicting heterosexual intimacy while queer novelists freely explore sex's complexities, as exemplified by Jan Saenz's unconventional novel about selling experimental orgasm-inducing pills.
Writing
fromVulture
1 month ago

The Horny Girls Who Walked So Heated Rivalry Could Run

M/M slash fanfiction, often written by women and known as BL in Asia, evolved through fandoms like Star Trek, enabling mainstream successes like Heated Rivalry.
Books
fromBustle
2 months ago

The Surprisingly Hot Case for Condoms in Romance Novels

Including condoms and sexual safety in romance novels normalizes protection and can influence readers' real-world sexual behavior and expectations.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

I Want to Teach My Girlfriend a New Trick in Bed. The Problem Is Where I Learned It From.

A man seeks advice on whether to teach his girlfriend a specific oral technique he learned from another woman during their breakup, fearing jealousy despite her stated desire to make him orgasm.
LGBT
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

I'm Having Great Sex With a Beautiful Woman. If Only She Knew What I Was Thinking About During It.

A person in a new stable relationship experiences intrusive sexual memories of a previous male partner, causing uncertainty about sexual orientation and presence during sex.
Books
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

When Did Literature Get Less Dirty?

Philip Roth's Zuckerman Unbound functioned as a response to the controversial reception of Portnoy's Complaint, with Roth's protagonist expressing regret over writing sexually explicit material that drew accusations of anti-Semitism and misogyny.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

I Lied About My Entire Identity to a Very Close Friend. Now I Want to Come Clean ... So I Can Sleep With Her.

A man who deceived his female friend by claiming to be gay to gain her trust cannot ethically pursue romance without confessing the deception first.
LGBT
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

I've Only Ever Slept With Women. Then My Gym Trainer Changed Everything.

A lifelong lesbian discovers unexpected sexual attraction and intense physical pleasure with a male trainer, provoking identity and desire questions.
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

Valentine's Day ideas from romance novelists: I always want books. I want chocolate. I want a scented candle.'

Each week we cut through the noise to bring you smart, practical recommendations on how to live better from what is worth buying to the tools, habits and ideas that actually last. The Guardian's journalism is independent. We will earn a commission if you buy something through an affiliate link. Learn more. When it comes to Valentine's Day, I'm nostalgic for candy hearts and childhood crushes.
Books
LGBT
fromQueerty
2 months ago

The Myth of Greek Sex: How Oscar Wilde, some steamy classics & a century of bias rewrote ancient queer love - Queerty

Homophobia in the West originated across the ancient Mediterranean amid crises—inequality, fear, and obsession with self-control—transforming previously accepted queer love into sin.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My Husband and I Host Sex Parties. We're Feuding Over the Next Guest of Honor.

Inviting an ex to a sex party with a no-contact agreement creates awkwardness and contradicts typical party dynamics where all attendees are assumed available unless explicitly excluded.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago

Ladies, We've Got To Stop Being Afraid To Sit On Our Partner's Faces (They *Love* It)

Men often enjoy face-sitting because it intensifies intimacy, centers the woman's pleasure, and creates a reversed power dynamic many find erotic.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Want Better Sex in 2026? Start With These 5 Books

Better sex is a learnable skill: understanding desire, developing communication and pleasure tools, and replacing myths with accurate information improves sexual wellbeing.
#sexual-communication
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago

My Spicy Book Club Was Exactly What My Marriage Needed

Joining a spicy book club improved marital intimacy by normalizing sexual conversations, encouraging communication about needs, and prompting practical actions like scheduling sex.
fromInsideHook
1 month ago

Is This the Year You Get Back to the Basics of Sex?

In the past, when we've done these analyses, we've seen couples express an interest in bondage play or sensory play. But this year, we're almost seeing a shift towards getting back to basics. I found it so interesting that regardless of gender, age or where you live, people want more oral sex.
Relationships
Relationships
fromInsideHook
2 months ago

How a Sex Writer Books a Hotel

Prioritize hotel room features—bed quality, supportive headboard, and adaptable surfaces—to enhance sexual comfort, adventurous positions, and restorative sleep.
fromEsquire
2 months ago

I Started a Sex Club to Help People Express Their Deepest Desires

In New York, sex-positive communities have evolved into something more organized than outsiders tend to imagine. Not just parties, but curated ecosystems built on vetting, trust, and a shared commitment to consent. Alain Rostain, a Yale-trained computer scientist and longtime consultant, spent much of his life drawn to power, structure, and desire. Eventually, he applied the same thinking he used in professional settings to the messiest arena of all: intimacy.
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago

I Want To Try Swinging. How Do I Tell My Spouse?

First of all, let me put your mind at ease. Having this thought does not make you a villain. It makes you a long-term partnered adult with a pulse. Most people don't wake up one morning and think, "Ah yes, swinging - this will clearly solve everything." Curiosity like this usually shows up more quietly. It's often less about wanting other people and more about wanting something back: playfulness, aliveness, the feeling that sex is still a place of discovery.
Relationships
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

My Wife Suggested I Try Out a New Sexual Experience. Where It Needs to Happen, Though, Is a Whole New World to Me.

Follow posted rules, bring cash, be polite, tip well, avoid touching performers, confirm extra charges, and consider visiting during slow hours.
fromHuffPost
1 month ago

Sex Therapists Say They Would NEVER Do These Things In the Bedroom

The realm of intimate relationships is wide and diverse, providing endless opportunities to discover joy, pleasure and connection. But exploring new ground without consent from both parties may cause unease, betrayals of confidence and even injury. A good sexual relationship depends on this kind of conversation because it ensures that any exploration is grounded in permission and mutual curiosity, strengthening the connection and enhancing the experience for both parties.
Relationships
fromIrish Independent
2 months ago

Just Between Us: From bullets to bondage - A beginner's guide to sex toys with Shawna Scott

With Valentine's Day around the corner, you might be thinking about buying a sexy gift for someone you love, or for yourself, and feeling completely overwhelmed by the options. This week on Just Between Us, Jennifer Zamparelli is joined by Shawna Scott of Sex Siopa to cut through the confusion and talk sex toys without shame or pressure. From bullets to bondage, dildos to dilators,
Relationships
Relationships
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago

Is Midlife Sex The Best Sex?

Midlife women often experience more satisfying, empowered sexual lives due to self-knowledge, freedom from parental duties, stronger libido, and unapologetic pursuit of pleasure.
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

My Wife Just Told Me What She Thinks About While We Have Sex. It's So Much Worse Than I Thought.

At any point, any of your partners may have been thinking of someone (or even something) else to help themselves get over the edge. The idea of making someone orgasm with, to put it your way, just you is an illusion. People bring a lifetime of experience to the sex they have, including ways to help facilitate orgasm. Sex alone may not be enough to get your wife to come.
Relationships
Relationships
fromHuffPost
1 month ago

Kinky People Have Always Prioritized This Practice. You Should Consider It Too.

Aftercare—post-sex comfort rituals—should become standard practice in all relationships, not just BDSM, to foster emotional connection and prevent post-sex emotional decline.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

When Sexual Frequency Becomes the Silent Issue

Unspoken sexual expectations within monogamy create conflict when desire changes asymmetrically, often after childbirth or menopause, requiring frank conversation to revive intimacy.
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

I Got Into Bed With a Couple. When Our Clothes Came Off, I Had a Reaction I Couldn't Control.

I am a bisexual, 50-year-old woman who enjoys threesomes, including with the most common configuration of a bisexual woman partnered with a straight male. All my past encounters have been amazing-open communication, everyone hot for everyone, natural transitions between constellations of two and three people interacting. However, last night I ended up in bed with a couple, and once we got our clothes off, something happened.
Relationships
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

What Porn, Affairs, and Early Romance Teach Us About Desire

Passion intensifies when uncertainty, vulnerability, and risk are present, whereas safety and predictability in long-term relationships often diminish erotic intensity.
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