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fromEntrepreneur
1 day agoThe 5 Stages of Career Growth - and What It Takes to Reach the Next One
Advancing your career requires evolving visibility, trust, and influence, not just improving performance.
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Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoPeople don't stay in friendships they've outgrown because they're weak - they stay because identity is bound up in being the kind of person who doesn't abandon people - Silicon Canals
People stay in outgrown friendships due to their identity being tied to the idea of not leaving, not out of cowardice or weakness.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoI realized this year that every relationship I've stayed too long in was one where I had to be quieter to make it work - Silicon Canals
Compromising in relationships can lead to diminishing one's authentic self, resulting in a quieter, less expressive version of oneself.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoI've stopped being angry that my adult children rarely call, because I finally understand they're not ignoring me - they're just living the life I worked my whole career to give them, and that's both the proudest and loneliest thought I've ever had - Silicon Canals
Children are overwhelmed with responsibilities, not neglecting their parents.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 hours agoThe people who seem to have endless patience with difficult family members aren't necessarily more forgiving. Many of them long ago concluded that the emotional cost of asking for change was higher than the cost of absorbing the behavior, and they've been paying the cheaper price for so long they forgot there was ever a choice. - Silicon Canals
Conflict avoidance is often mistaken for patience, but it can lead to relationship breakdown and is linked to anxiety and attachment insecurity.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoPsychology says people who can walk away from an argument without needing the last word aren't passive or weak - they've learned that some people don't argue to understand, they argue to win, and disengaging from a game that was never designed to have a fair outcome is one of the most sophisticated emotional skills a person can develop, even though it almost always gets mistaken for not caring - Silicon Canals
Walking away from unproductive arguments reflects wisdom, not weakness, and is essential for emotional health.
fromIndependent
2 days agoModern Morals: My husband has just been let go from his fourth job in five years - I'm running out of patience. What can I do?
My husband has just been let go from his fourth job in five years. The first time it happened was during Covid when he was laid off, but it seemed to start a pattern.
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fromSlate Magazine
2 days agoI've Worked Tirelessly to Get One of Our Best Employees a Promotion. Then I Learned What the Bosses Have in Store for Him Instead.
First-time manager struggles to secure a raise and promotion for an exemplary employee amid company staffing issues and financial constraints.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoThe person who always says 'I don't mind, you choose' isn't easygoing. They learned that having a visible preference made them a target, and disappearing into someone else's choice became the safest place in the room. - Silicon Canals
Preference-erasure is a survival strategy developed in childhood, often misinterpreted as easygoing behavior, masking deeper emotional suppression.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoThe most powerful thing you can do in a tense situation is remain completely silent - not because you have nothing to say, but because the person who speaks first is almost always the one performing, and the person who listens is the one who learns - Silicon Canals
Silence during discussions can lead to better understanding and outcomes by fostering reflection and reducing defensive responses.
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fromPsychology Today
1 week agoWhy Your Next Career Move Might Be a Demotion
Career paths now require individuals to navigate their own responsibilities and choices, moving away from traditional upward trajectories.
fromFast Company
3 weeks agoMade a mistake at work? Here's how to fix it in three easy steps
To successfully repair after a mistake, you need to acknowledge and name the mistake, validate the other person's feelings and viewpoint, and create a plan for the specific actions you will take to prevent this mistake from occurring again.
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fromPsychology Today
1 month agoThe 3 Most Common Types of Difficult Coworkers
Difficult coworkers fall into three categories: those withholding effort, those who are chronically negative, and those displaying inappropriate interpersonal behavior. Direct, honest conversations focused on problem-solving rather than blame can effectively address workplace conflicts.
fromSlate Magazine
1 month agoI'm Training the New, Young Guy at Work. Uh, Who's Going to Tell Him This Isn't How We Behave in an Office?
Recently, I was tasked with helping to train a new hire: a much younger guy who has a superior ranking to me. He picks up things quickly. But the issue is that he overshares personal information and asks too many personal questions. He has been having romantic issues, which he talked about with another person and me. One day, he even had an emotional breakdown (crying and yelling) at work, which required soothing and calming him down.
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