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When Winning Is Wounding: The Overachiever's Trap

Overachievement often serves as a trauma-based strategy for validation.

Perfectionism Has No End to It

Perfectionists struggle with self-worth and often avoid painful feelings by pushing people away.

Perfectionism in Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Narcissists engage in black-and-white thinking, leading to a fragile ego that uses perfectionism as a defense against shame.

Parenting

The Role of Perfectionism in Autism Spectrum Disorder

Perfectionism in autism serves as a coping mechanism for self-esteem and interpersonal distress, leading to further relationship challenges.

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Wellness

For Perfectionists, Therapy Isn't Always About Becoming Better

Mental health

Overthinking Isn't as Helpful as You Think

Wellness

For Perfectionists, Therapy Isn't Always About Becoming Better

Mental health

Overthinking Isn't as Helpful as You Think

Relationships

Perfectly Alone: How Perfectionism Undermines Connection

Relationships

Dealing With Perfectionism in Couples Therapy

Relationships

Challenging the Perfectionist's Beliefs About Being Loved

Relationships

The Myth of the Flawless Partner

Relationships

Perfectly Alone: How Perfectionism Undermines Connection

Relationships

Dealing With Perfectionism in Couples Therapy

Relationships

Challenging the Perfectionist's Beliefs About Being Loved

Relationships

The Myth of the Flawless Partner

The perfect partner is the one most suitable for you, not necessarily flawless.

Incompatible partners can lead to a feeling of disconnection despite perceived perfection.

Seeking a perfect partner often results in loneliness, as they lack excitement and depth.

Acknowledging both positive and negative traits is crucial for lasting love.

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Instead of Trying to Be Perfect, Choose to Be Authentic

Pursuing an authentic life is the most meaningful path; perfectionism often leads to insecurity and feelings of unworthiness. Coping mechanisms may stem from false beliefs.

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Mindfulness

Perfectionism and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

Perfectionists seek external validation to prove their self-worth, often leading to cycles of obsessive thoughts and behaviors.

Mindfulness

Addressing the Need for Certainty in OCD

OCD involves extreme self-doubt and a futile pursuit to eliminate it through effort.

Mindfulness

Perfectionism and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

Perfectionists seek external validation to prove their self-worth, often leading to cycles of obsessive thoughts and behaviors.

Mindfulness

Addressing the Need for Certainty in OCD

OCD involves extreme self-doubt and a futile pursuit to eliminate it through effort.

The 'Hero Child' and the Achievement Obsessed Adult

Family roles serve both functional and dysfunctional purposes in families, influencing self-worth and behavior.

The 'hero child' role can lead to perfectionism and a constant need for external validation.

The Critical Thinking Traps in Perfectionism

Perfectionists often unfairly place the burden of proof onto others to prove that they're worthy.

Mindfulness

Why We're So Judgmental

Perfectionism and judgmental attitudes contribute to chronic anxiety.

Judgments mask deeper emotional needs, leading to isolation and loneliness.

How Talented Students Fared During and After the Pandemic

Gifted students showed resilience during the pandemic but need peer interaction for full potential.

Honors students face higher risks of maladaptive perfectionism and related mental health issues.

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Tom Daley looks back: My management said if I came out, I'd lose sponsorship'

Tom Daley's journey highlights his early perfectionism and competitive spirit, leading him to become a celebrated diver and Olympic champion.

Anxiety and Self-Criticism: A Deadly Combination

Recognizing anxiety and self-criticism as intertwined issues is crucial for effective coping.

Impostor Syndrome and the Fear of Being Seen

Impostor syndrome leads individuals to doubt their accomplishments despite evidence, stemming from early experiences and societal pressures.

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Therapists Say This Is The One Thing That Harms Eldest Daughters' Happiness The Most, And As An Eldest Daughter, I Can Confirm

They may feel responsible for younger siblings and even their parents, she added. They may also feel like they need to carry 'the mental load,' or the invisible tasks required to keep a family afloat.

Parenting

Why Can't I Just Be Happy?

The individual in this state is confused and, even worse, terrified. Whereas joy once felt within reach, anhedonia diminishes one's sense of agency.

Mindfulness

Perfectionism in Avoidant Personality Disorder

Avoidant personality disorder involves extreme social anxiety and perfectionism as a coping mechanism.

Understanding perfectionism's emotional roots can alleviate avoidant tendencies.

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Cleaning Lessons I Learned from the 1964 "Mary Poppins" Movie That I'll Use Forever

"Good enough is as good as appeased." I love this phrase because it helps me let go of perfectionism. In my case, perfectionism not only makes a job take longer, but it also keeps me from starting it in the first place...Mary Poppins reminded me that good enough is, well, good enough.

Parenting

The Cult of Achievement

Tying self-worth to productivity leads to anxiety and depression.

Society conveys that value is linked to one's utility or achievements.

Non-judgmental practice can help escape perfectionism.

When the Pursuit of Success Becomes Self-Defeating

Self-defeating behaviors can lead to life-long patterns of dissatisfaction.

Perfectionism often transforms into obsessive tendencies that negatively affect well-being and relationships.

Assessing the long-term effects of sacrifice is essential for psychological health.

Parenting

Childhood Patterns That Fuel Enmeshment and Perfectionism

Children often believe they are responsible for neglect or abuse due to their understanding of cause and effect.

Moral perfectionism can be a defense mechanism, leading children to think that being good equals control and happiness.

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The Next Day by Melinda French Gates review Melinda on life, before and after Bill

Melinda reflects on her battle with perfectionism, stating that her drive for self-improvement may have caused her to miss opportunities for spontaneity in life.

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